Is it cheating to encourage flirting?Watch
People have different definitions though so don’t let me stop you from enjoying your life.
I would say so. Why are you encouraging people to flirt with you if you're in a committed relationship? Why do you want other people to look at you the way your partner does? If you want to flirt and date, leave the relationship.
It is either flirting so I would be unhappy with it or cheating and I would be even more unhappy.