I am 24 years old and have never had a girlfriend

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Not only am I neither dashing nor charismatic, but also I have no idea of how a heterosexual relationship can begin.

I am alone, but not lonely. I don't know if freedom from solitude is better than shackles from relationship. I want to have my Mrs. right, though the odds seem to diminish without limit as time goes by.

What do you think?
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How? Even I have had a few and I am no looker, also 3 years older than you but that's negligible.
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More incomprehensible than enigma
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I don't know if freedom from solitude is better than shackles from relationship.
Good relationship> No relationship > Bad relationship
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You know that the partner you choose will dictate how you’re going to be for the rest of your life, whether happy or sad or constant anger or feeling warm around them. I don’t think that anyone should be in a rush to make such a massive decision until it presents itself and the heart is content with it. 24 is still a young age. Good things take time, the same way I’m hopeful that Arteta will succeed at Arsenal but it’s definitely gonna take its toll and time 🤧🤧
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More incomprehensible than enigma
What is? Women? They're really not that complex.
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The reason why I have never had a girlfriend.
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They say it happens when you least expect it, whats the rush
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They say it happens when you least expect it, whats the rush
Why do you think I am in a rush?
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Why do you think I am in a rush?
idk, are you?
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idk, are you?
No. How about you?
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What has been so hard?
Have you never fancied anyone enough to approach them? Fear of rejection?
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What has been so hard?
Have you never fancied anyone enough to approach them? Fear of rejection?
I had loved a girl a bit older than me during undergrad for four years before she eventually threw me out of her followers' list just three days ahead of my graduation ceremony (which was cancelled for some tragic reasons). She is not beautiful at all, I don't know I am such dumb to have loved her throughout my undergrad. Since then, I have never wanted to let myself fancy a girl.
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No. How about you?
Im 22 and never been in a relationship either. I rather take my time and meet the right person than rush into one only for it to go to :poo:

Have you tried dating apps or anything like that?
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Im 22 and never been in a relationship either. I rather take my time and meet the right person than rush into one only for it to go to :poo:

Have you tried dating apps or anything like that?
I am not such depraved to use a dating app.
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I had loved a girl a bit older than me during undergrad for four years before she eventually threw me out of her followers' list just three days ahead of my graduation ceremony (which was cancelled for some tragic reasons). She is not beautiful at all, I don't know I am such dumb to have loved her throughout my undergrad. Since then, I have never wanted to let myself fancy a girl.
Ahhh!Unrequited love the bain of us all!Time to move on buddy.
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Ahhh!Unrequited love the bain of us all!Time to move on buddy.
I no longer give her a damn. I don't know where she is now.
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I had loved a girl a bit older than me during undergrad for four years before she eventually threw me out of her followers' list just three days ahead of my graduation ceremony (which was cancelled for some tragic reasons). She is not beautiful at all, I don't know I am such dumb to have loved her throughout my undergrad. Since then, I have never wanted to let myself fancy a girl.
Hey that’s not dumb, and also you don’t have to love someone just because they look beautiful or not. To you clearly she was, whether that was outwardly or not. Honestly I think it’s better to love someone for the person they are. I’ve been in love with and probably still am with a man who not does seem attractive. Nevertheless you can’t let these things hold you back from finding love, actual love, a real relationship.
Now that you’ve achieved your first class degree, which is quite an accomplishment! It’s time to live a little!
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Hey that’s not dumb, and also you don’t have to love someone just because they look beautiful or not. To you clearly she was, whether that was outwardly or not. Honestly I think it’s better to love someone for the person they are. I’ve been in love with and probably still am with a man who not does seem attractive. Nevertheless you can’t let these things hold you back from finding love, actual love, a real relationship.
Now that you’ve achieved your first class degree, which is quite an accomplishment! It’s time to live a little!
My undergrad degree is second low
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You know that the partner you choose will dictate how you’re going to be for the rest of your life, whether happy or sad or constant anger or feeling warm around them. I don’t think that anyone should be in a rush to make such a massive decision until it presents itself and the heart is content with it. 24 is still a young age. Good things take time, the same way I’m hopeful that Arteta will succeed at Arsenal but it’s definitely gonna take its toll and time 🤧🤧
You are right.
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