So shy guys who don’t make a move get rejected?

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Is it true that if a guy misses his opportunity to make a move on a girl and never does for months, she’ll just forever only see him as a friend?
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Yes! Unless she’s confident enough to make the first move herself. But a lot of girls won’t. Lol I know I wouldn’t. I prefer when the guy makes a move
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Yes! Unless she’s confident enough to make the first move herself. But a lot of girls won’t. Lol I know I wouldn’t. I prefer when the guy makes a move
So if he misses the opportunity, you’ll reject him if he asks you out months later even if you’re still single?
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How can they be in a position to get rejected if they don't 'make a move'?
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I mean if they make a move months later.
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Is it true that if a guy misses his opportunity to make a move on a girl and never does for months, she’ll just forever only see him as a friend?
No, because there's more to being in a relationship, or not, than the timing of 'a move' and shyness.
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You miss 100% of the shots you don't take. What's the worst that can happen? If you do ask and she rejects you - big deal, you can move on and find someone else. But you won't find out until you be upfront, honest and actually ask her.
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Anonymous #1
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(Original post by asif007)
You miss 100% of the shots you don't take. What's the worst that can happen? If you do ask and she rejects you - big deal, you can move on and find someone else. But you won't find out until you be upfront, honest and actually ask her.
It’s harassment to ask people out unless they want to be asked out.
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It’s harassment to ask people out unless they want to be asked out.
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Anonymous #2
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Lol from experience, yes, even if she was actually attracted to you at one point. problem is i dont know how to take a hint so i dont realise until afterwards that if i made a move i probably wouldve been successful, but when im in the moment i dont want to make the move bc i dont want to ruin the current relationship
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Lol from experience, yes, even if she was actually attracted to you at one point. problem is i dont know how to take a hint so i dont realise until afterwards that if i made a move i probably wouldve been successful, but when im in the moment i dont want to make the move bc i dont want to ruin the current relationship
Do you know for sure that they were attracted to you? Or are you just guessing?
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Anonymous #2
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Do you know for sure that they were attracted to you? Or are you just guessing?
99% sure - looking back at it, it was obvious
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Anonymous #1
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(Original post by Anonymous)
99% sure - looking back at it, it was obvious
Do you make a move later Mw diet rejected?
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And get*
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Anonymous #2
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Do you make a move later Mw diet rejected?
i ended up never making the move because corona lockdown happened and i didnt get to see them after that, we message occasionally but i dont feel (as) attracted to her as before
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Anonymous #1
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i ended up never making the move because corona lockdown happened and i didnt get to see them after that, we message occasionally but i dont feel (as) attracted to her as before
So you’ll never know. Have you had a girlfriend before?
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Anonymous #2
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So you’ll never know. Have you had a girlfriend before?
never say never, and yes
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Christ.
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It’s harassment to ask people out unless they want to be asked out.
Ok, then don't ask and let the boat sail without you. Some people choose to stay single, and that's fine.
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You can't get rejected if you've never made a move in the first place lol.
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