Turned off by her now that I found out she sleeps around

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I'm a 18 year old female with a body count of 1. I was in a relationship with him. Do you think I'm a ho? Or does every woman need to be a virgin lol

a bound count of 1 is completely acceptable - we’re talking more about ppl who sleep with 20,30,40+ ppl a year

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Jason44

Original post by GabiAbi84

😂😂😂wtf even is this??

Just remember this: Women scientifically age faster/like milk and have a biological clock. This isn't just based on phrases like 'men age like fine wine whilst women age like milk' (although it's kinda true). I just found out menopause speeds it up even faster too! Most women just look like pale dead fishes without being caked in makeup! After 30 the face looks old and washed, and after 30/35 the eggs are fried up. A woman that can't even fulfil her basic biological role of having children is useless! Theres a reason men (of all ages) prefer dating younger women, especially pretty, youthful fertile women in their 20s. Also women with high body counts are nasty af and are easy. Men don't want a used up dirty towel thats been passed around. Massive turn off!

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Anonymous #2

Original post by Anonymous

a bound count of 1 is completely acceptable - we’re talking more about ppl who sleep with 20,30,40+ ppl a year

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Reply 43

Kyoushi

Original post by GabiAbi84

😂😂😂wtf even is this??

fIf you dont care for getting married. Its fine you dont have to listen, sleep wiht all the men in the world. But hey look at this, there's a girl pornstar who is aesthetically a 10/10. Her personality is not bad, shes also a drummer. But why is it that she cant find a long lasting relationship with a man who in the end doesnt split up with her? Every boyfriend shes ever had has brokoen up with her after a few months. There's only one reason, 'men do not like women who have been used by other men' its something you have to accept as true among the majority of men. Otherwise, im pretty sure she would have been married by now with a rich guy and a few babies.

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purplpeanut

Original post by Jason44

It's also a massive turn off when guys end up sleeping around but sure get it out of your system before you can't get it up anymore. Get some std's too while you're at it, the amount of men coming into my pharmacy for valacyclovir is hilarious. Now if you were an honest guy who oh let's say had sexual relations with three to four woman in relationships then that's fine, you have experience and a girl would want you, but on the same reason that you don't want a gal whose been having sex a lot women don't want that either, men with huge body counts=massive turn off.

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Jason44

Original post by purplpeanut

Firstly women sleep around more than men and don't respect themselves. Secondly a woman's purity is far more important/valuable to her than mens. Thirdly, have you seen how many Ho's have abortions/kill their children these days because 'hubby and i forgot to use a condom'. If you have reckless/unprotected sex YOU carry the consequence. Rape and incest only account for less than 1% of ALL abortions so don't use that argument either.

(edited 2 years ago)

Reply 46

purplpeanut

Original post by Jason44

Firstly there is a general argument that it is a-okay in society for men to sleep around with women and gain sexual experience while women should remain pure-this is an argument that has been brought up through social norms, and religion through many different periods and cultures in our world today. Secondly, because of this argument and standpoint virginity has been associated with purity(especially within the christian faith) and as such is seen as a bigger "deal" for women than men. Men can't wait to lose it and the more girls he sleeps with the higher he is put on a pedestal vs if a woman loses it to a man for the first time that's great but afterwards she's seen as a slut who can't control her urges. Wonderful. Thirdly I didn't bring up an abortion debate so why the f**k you put that in there I have no idea. I brought up valacyclovir as a reference. You want to know what the use is for that? genital herpes. Which while it can be sexually transmitted it is mainly transmitted from the mouth area to the nether regions. As in...you guessed it blowjobs. Which most men argue that they shouldn't use a condom for blowjobs anyway, so @Jason44 I do agree with you, if you have reckless/unprotected sex YOU carry the consequence. And that is why I have many men in my pharmacy picking up valacyclovir.
Maybe if one was to sleep around and be responsible about it, then I wouldn't see an issue. If you're trying to date someone anyway you shouldn't be bringing up your past relationships (sexual or otherwise) unless there's a good reason for it.

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Ackhnologia

Original post by Anonymous

I don't want it, its just my preference really. Not to mention increased chance of STDs and what not. And she would be more likely to cheat. But yeah even if she didn't have STDs and wouldn't cheat, I just don't want a partner that sleeps around. I don't do it so I don't think there's anything wrong in not wanting a partner to either.

👏👏👏👏
This proves that you are a man.
You know what you want. You know what is worth your time or not. That is good.
Do not let yourself influenced by anyone on here. If you do not like a woman who cannot control herself you have the right to. The same way a woman has the right to avoid a man who cannot control himself, or a virgin.
Stick to your standards👏👏👏

Reply 48

Ackhnologia

Original post by Jason44

High body count IS a TURN OFF for all men. Facts. Every guy in here has agreed with me. I think you're offended because you have been blowing lots of guys and suddenly realised that being a HO isn't attractive to MEN, especially high value men. Every guy on earth would choose a woman who's virgin and pure over a woman with a low-high body count. You can't speak for men as you're an emotional woman, and don't understand why its a turn off from OUR perspective as men. Why would any man wife up a HO???

And you think that women must be okay with a man who sleeps around if they do not want to?

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Anonymous #5

OP, I felt this recently about someone. What I was going through is called retroactive jealousy; I would always compare myself against her past relationships/sexual endeavors and kept seeing it as competition. I just couldn't get over it and so for my own self-preservation, I had to leave her which was very hard, but it was for the best.

You're still very young. Irrespective of age, don't rush into anything that you're uncomfortable with.

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Anonymous #1

Original post by gjd800

This is nonsense and it really betrays your youth and inexperience

You have your preference, fine. Don't rationalise it with falsehoods

Its not a falsehood though. I never said people that sleep around will cheat most of the time. I said they are more likely to because they are. How is someone that only has sex with partners as likely to cheat as someone who has sex all the time? The person who has sex all the time will want sex more and will be less likely to be satisfied in general.