Controlling and strange behavior from parent

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My dad is being very controlling and is forcing me to do the thing I do not want otherwise he is threatening to beat me up even though I am already 18+. He keeps on asking me to pick up a call (from one of his friends) and answer the call on his behalf since his English isn't good and is struggling to understand what the person is saying. I realise all they discuss are un-important staff and I said I am happy to help you out if you really need help but if you want to make friends with people then that is really your own personal business and I should not get involved but he said I was being selfish and not trying to help him out.

I am thinking to move out of the town soon with my new graduate job even though I will have to cover all the expenses myself but I really cannot stand living in a house where I am constantly being forced to do stuff and if I am not complying will be scorned at.

Are all parents like this? Forcing you to do the stuff you don't want to do?
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My dad is being very controlling and is forcing me to do the thing I do not want otherwise he is threatening to beat me up even though I am already 18+. He keeps on asking me to pick up a call (from one of his friends) and answer the call on his behalf since his English isn't good and is struggling to understand what the person is saying. I realise all they discuss are un-important staff and I said I am happy to help you out if you really need help but if you want to make friends with people then that is really your own personal business and I should not get involved but he said I was being selfish and not trying to help him out.

I am thinking to move out of the town soon with my new graduate job even though I will have to cover all the expenses myself but I really cannot stand living in a house where I am constantly being forced to do stuff and if I am not complying will be scorned at.

Are all parents like this? Forcing you to do the stuff you don't want to do?
no all parents are not. your dad sounds very controlling and honestly the threatening to beat you up is concerning imo. I hope you're able to move out soon. stay safe please.
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My dad is being very controlling and is forcing me to do the thing I do not want otherwise he is threatening to beat me up even though I am already 18+. He keeps on asking me to pick up a call (from one of his friends) and answer the call on his behalf since his English isn't good and is struggling to understand what the person is saying. I realise all they discuss are un-important staff and I said I am happy to help you out if you really need help but if you want to make friends with people then that is really your own personal business and I should not get involved but he said I was being selfish and not trying to help him out.

I am thinking to move out of the town soon with my new graduate job even though I will have to cover all the expenses myself but I really cannot stand living in a house where I am constantly being forced to do stuff and if I am not complying will be scorned at.

Are all parents like this? Forcing you to do the stuff you don't want to do?
Move out
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Move out
I think he has some kind of mental issues and with the Pandemic and his financial crisis, he is just getting more out of control.
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