21 years old male who don’t enjoy penetrative sex.

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I don’t enjoy penetrative sex ( vaginal or anal) as my glans of the penis is very sensitive and I feel pain. I have tried penetrative sex many times and it is very painful for me when I start the frictions. My penis goes soft after 1 min as I feel the pain. Did anyone in here experienced the similar?

I am very scared of dating girls because of this issue. Actually I like giving/receiving oral, kissing, fingering, using toys and other non-penetrative (for me) sex. Do you think it is possible to pleasure the woman with this?
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I can't help with your first question, and the answer to the second is 'yes'.

The real reason I'm replying is to let you know that you can get condoms with numbing-agents (used for delaying ejaculation), which may help. Or maybe try a thicker ('extra safe') condom. (The latter, typically, have more lube, too.)
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Yes, definitely possible to please a woman without penetrative sex - I am female and it is extremely painful for me too so not having to do it would be great.
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I’m sorry to hear this. Penetrative sex should be highly pleasurable not painful. Maybe worth seeing your doctor about this. As a circumcised man I can last quite a long time during sex; it may be that a circumcision could reduce the feeling of oversensitivity for you.
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(Original post by KSM87)
I’m sorry to hear this. Penetrative sex should be highly pleasurable not painful. Maybe worth seeing your doctor about this. As a circumcised man I can last quite a long time during sex; it may be that a circumcision could reduce the feeling of oversensitivity for you.
I agree with KSM87. Having been circumcised at birth, my glans penis has de-sensitised over the years and there’s never any problem with it rubbing against anything, but there’s still enough sensitivity to find sex hugely enjoyable.
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I do not think you have any serious problem. You may have to get a little surgery done and get circumcised. Consult a doctor and proceed according to professional advice. I am wishing you all the very best.
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I don’t enjoy penetrative sex ( vaginal or anal) as my glans of the penis is very sensitive and I feel pain. I have tried penetrative sex many times and it is very painful for me when I start the frictions. My penis goes soft after 1 min as I feel the pain. Did anyone in here experienced the similar?

I am very scared of dating girls because of this issue. Actually I like giving/receiving oral, kissing, fingering, using toys and other non-penetrative (for me) sex. Do you think it is possible to pleasure the woman with this?
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