My boyfriend watching porn is bothering me

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I know I shouldn’t have to try and big myself up or validate myself in anyway way but I’m not exactly gross looking.

I’m petite and have boobs and have a bum I’m 21 I’m blonde and I love sex.

I’m no prude, I never say no to my 28 year old partners desires, I embrace them and enjoy them I really try my best in sex and I’m open to threesomes with my partner.

But it bothers me, I’ve noticed when my partner watches porn now because he struggles to get hard, stay hard and it’s affected our sex life, I’m writing this as I usually enjoy sex but recently I don’t want to look at him out of insecurity, I don’t want to go in certain positions in case I don’t look good, I don’t want to moan too much or too little so I keep quiet, I don’t want to go down on him in case he compares my skills to the girls on porn and it’s not healthy for me.

I know men are going to respond like get a grip it’s healthy but as someone who has a high sex drive, really has no boundaries in the bedroom and prioritises sex, it’s hard to understand why he still needs porn when sex is so easily accessible for him. I can’t enjoy it as much as I used to now I know he’s having physical issues from watching it too much.

It’s disheartening and I’m sick of being told I get upset everything but I don’t even want to have sex with him or go down on him anymore and the thought of sex is putting me off.
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My take is this: I have various fetishes that I like. If I could have sex with someone, and if I did not tell the other person of my fetishes, I would still be attracted to certain websites like bondage sites.
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