(26M) can not come from penetration and oral, only when my partner masturbates me.

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I have had this problem for 2-3 years.

Since then, I tried to work on masturbation (loose death grip, I even bought a large fleshlight 1 year ago to get used to come in a wider less tightening grip). I also stopped porn almost one year ago (I was only watching "soft" porn, but now I don't watch at all and masturbate on my thoughts).

I feel like the fleshlight solution has improved a bit the problem as I can now, come from piv sex, if I didn't masturbate for like 1 week and I haven't had sex in a long time. But the problem is still there. In any other situation, I can not come from oral or piv sex and it starts to have really bad effects on my relations as I can't enjoy normal piv sex as my partners (I get soft after a moment cause I just don't feel anything after some time). I'm also unable to wear a condom cause it suppresses the bit of stimulation I get from piv sex, so it makes even harder to find potential partners because of this...

Did someone facing the same difficulties found a solution over time ? I would give a lot to come back to a normal healthy piv with condom sex life... I need to mention that I'm circumcised since I'm a baby. But I used to have great sex in my teenager/young adult years.
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(Original post by RayanRYG)
I have had this problem for 2-3 years.

Since then, I tried to work on masturbation (loose death grip, I even bought a large fleshlight 1 year ago to get used to come in a wider less tightening grip). I also stopped porn almost one year ago (I was only watching "soft" porn, but now I don't watch at all and masturbate on my thoughts).

I feel like the fleshlight solution has improved a bit the problem as I can now, come from piv sex, if I didn't masturbate for like 1 week and I haven't had sex in a long time. But the problem is still there. In any other situation, I can not come from oral or piv sex and it starts to have really bad effects on my relations as I can't enjoy normal piv sex as my partners (I get soft after a moment cause I just don't feel anything after some time). I'm also unable to wear a condom cause it suppresses the bit of stimulation I get from piv sex, so it makes even harder to find potential partners because of this...

Did someone facing the same difficulties found a solution over time ? I would give a lot to come back to a normal healthy piv with condom sex life... I need to mention that I'm circumcised since I'm a baby. But I used to have great sex in my teenager/young adult years.
Well I feel bad because no one has replied to yet; but I’m a girl and I know like nothing…….. but
I think you should stop masturbating for some time as your thing has relied only on hand movements to come.
I think you need to find the right partner to blow your mind and try new things
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Sorry to hear this. I’m not sure that being circumcised makes a difference here; I’m also circumcised and do not have this issue. I hope all works out ok for you.
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(Original post by RayanRYG)
I have had this problem for 2-3 years.

Since then, I tried to work on masturbation (loose death grip, I even bought a large fleshlight 1 year ago to get used to come in a wider less tightening grip). I also stopped porn almost one year ago (I was only watching "soft" porn, but now I don't watch at all and masturbate on my thoughts).

I feel like the fleshlight solution has improved a bit the problem as I can now, come from piv sex, if I didn't masturbate for like 1 week and I haven't had sex in a long time. But the problem is still there. In any other situation, I can not come from oral or piv sex and it starts to have really bad effects on my relations as I can't enjoy normal piv sex as my partners (I get soft after a moment cause I just don't feel anything after some time). I'm also unable to wear a condom cause it suppresses the bit of stimulation I get from piv sex, so it makes even harder to find potential partners because of this...

Did someone facing the same difficulties found a solution over time ? I would give a lot to come back to a normal healthy piv with condom sex life... I need to mention that I'm circumcised since I'm a baby. But I used to have great sex in my teenager/young adult years.
I recommend getting yourself tested, not for STD's and stuff, but get yourself tested to ensure why this is happening, ask a doctor, theres no shame in it. keep us updated!
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