Is it 'slutty' for a girl to send nudes?

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There's a difference between sending nudes and actually sleeping around.
Just because they do one thing it doesnt necessarily mean they do the other as well.
Yeah I've sent a few nudes but haven't had sex before.
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(Original post by Callicious)
Where do I find this slutty classmate of yours? On that note, where do I find pigmentation surgery to turn myself Indian?
Tbh you can just dye your hair black and get dark brown contact lenses.
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I find it stupid that this question is actually being asked due to anecdotal experience.
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(Original post by Kentinho99)
Why would she do it in the first place. It's almost as bad as cheating to be honest
It is very slutty. Why would she ever do that its so wrong. If she ain't happy in a relationship just tell her partner thst she wants a break up don't bloody cheat.
What? Where did you get cheating from. I'm not talking about relationships or cheating
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Why are you sending them to someone you aren't dating? I don't think it's slutty it's just weird. Are they unsolicited pictures?
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(Original post by Anonymous)
To someone they're not in a relationship with?

Would a girl like this be a 'slut' in your eyes?

Be honest, both guys and girls.
It's a bit trashy, isn't it? Basically, don't just give it away, or you really can't complain when men don't seem to respect you.
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What if they sent nudes to you and for you ?
Doesn't change my answer. I'd still feel they were giving it up too easy and I'd likely presume I wasn't the only person getting those same pics. If I had been interested in the chase before, there's a good chance I'd immediately lose interest.

If it was someone I already had an existing sexual relationship with it might be a different matter, but that's not what we're talking about,
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this sounds like something one does not want to do
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(Original post by Callicious)
Where do I find this slutty classmate of yours? On that note, where do I find pigmentation surgery to turn myself Indian?
Rub mustard oil all over your body and only drink Coke. She's not my classmate, she's 20 and lives in the same town as me, I was listening to a conversation coming from the voiceboxes of three classmates. It was very interesting. She shags these old Indian guys for hours daily, it's mental, worst of all, for free.
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Yeah I've sent a few nudes but haven't had sex before.
I am the same.
Only ever sent nudes to people i talk to/date (even then, i never include faces in those pics). And have never slept with anyone before.
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(Original post by dentapplicant1)
Don't ever send nudes. Ever. To anyone. If you do you will eventually regret it.
agreed.
there are women who highlight this as their nudes are and habe been posted online as revenge or a joke or just because. they found themselves not just victims because of their pictures being posted online against their conswnt but also because they become stalked and 'hunted' by those who now think these women will sex anyone.

I encourage anyone and the o.p. to search in news for such a topic. there have been many that I recall.
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Anonymous #1
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I am the same.
Only ever sent nudes to people i talk to/date (even then, i never include faces in those pics). And have never slept with anyone before.
I've never included my face either. I'm a virgin who's probably sent about 7 nudes total in my life to 2 guys, and that's about as far as my sexual experience has been, lol.
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(Original post by da_nolo)
agreed.
there are women who highlight this as their nudes are and habe been posted online as revenge or a joke or just because. they found themselves not just victims because of their pictures being posted online against their conswnt but also because they become stalked and 'hunted' by those who now think these women will sex anyone.

I encourage anyone and the o.p. to search in news for such a topic. there have been many that I recall.
I've never included my face in the few nudes I've ever taken.
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I've never included my face in the few nudes I've ever taken.
Doesn't matter. Your nudes can still be seen by random people. Also, it's illegal for you to send nudes if you're under 18.
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I've never included my face in the few nudes I've ever taken.
Still, once you send a picture to someone else, you loose any control over it. You have no idea how many people could see that photo, and they could use it as blackmail against you. There is nothing inherently wrong with sending nudes, and there is no such thing as a slut, its just a derogatory term for women, but I would strongly caution against sending nude images to anyone. The potential for them to abuse your trust is immense.
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What? Where did you get cheating from. I'm not talking about relationships or cheating
My bad I'm sorry i read it wrong 😅😂 I am so sorry. Look i mean to be honest need to be careful when doing this. I mean it can take you away from the real world as you're too focused on your phone relationship. So to be honest with you i would rather be with that person together real life not through a phone.
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Anonymous #1
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(Original post by Reality Check)
It's a bit trashy, isn't it? Basically, don't just give it away, or you really can't complain when men don't seem to respect you.
It's a picture, though. It's not the same as sleeping around with the guy, so I'm not really giving much away. I've only done it for fun and to kind of get a bit of sexual insight/experience from men as a virgin, as opposed to going and sleeping around

Like I've said above, I've also never included my face in it. I've also only ever sent about 7 pictures in total to two guys I've spoken to who only know my first name.
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No.
Idiotic, crass and trashy.
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It's a picture, though. It's not the same as sleeping around with the guy, so I'm not really giving much away. I've only done it for fun and to kind of get a bit of sexual insight/experience from men as a virgin, as opposed to going and sleeping around

Like I've said above, I've also never included my face in it. I've also only ever sent about 7 pictures in total to two guys I've spoken to who only know my first name.
I don't think the issue of whether it is 'slutty' or not is at all important. Being branded slutty is stupid - it is just about criticising women for doing things that men aren't criticised for. The issue is that nude images can be used in blackmail and as revenge porn, and so sending them is a bad idea.
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To someone they're not in a relationship with?

Would a girl like this be a 'slut' in your eyes?

Be honest, both guys and girls.
The word slut is used by people who want to sex shame women for being sexually active with multiple partners. It's generally the same people that think men who have the same sexual behaviour should be praised. Society is so backward, it shames women who have their cloud accounts hacked and their nudes leaked, but doesn't shame the hacker who leaked them in the first place!

If you want to send nudes, go for it. However, several things - do you have consent to send them? I am assuming you're a female. No one likes an unsolicited **** pic, and that sentiment works both ways (guys who say otherwise seem to be the same sort that think males who have been sexually assaulted by a woman have nothing to complain about).
Why are you sending them? A sexy surprise for someone you're intimate with is a fun thing to do. If it's because you want approval from said person, then that's a bad reason.
If you are going to send them, what if they are leaked/shared?

Like many things in life, if it isn't a "hell yes", then it's a no. The fact that you're unsure and therefore asking on here about it, in this instance, I would say no.
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