Is it bad that I haven’t had my first kiss at 17

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Not been asked on a date or been in a relationship either.

People make fun of me because of it - they make me feel like a weirdo and that I’ll never find anyone
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That's perfectly alright-
For some people kisses and act of intimacy is special and deserves to be done with someone important and special to them.
To others- they may not just be ready for things like that.
Whatever your reasons are- you're actions are perfectly valid
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It's not that deep - u don't have to tell anyone as well
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(Original post by poketwist)
That's perfectly alright-
For some people kisses and act of intimacy is special and deserves to be done with someone important and special to them.
To others- they may not just be ready for things like that.
Whatever your reasons are- you're actions are perfectly valid
My reason is that no one seems interested in me
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My reason is that no one seems interested in me
Are you interested in anyone else? Perhaps you're not really ready, or you're too shy to send out the right signs. Most people need a little subtle encouragement to show interest.
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Are you interested in anyone else? Perhaps you're not really ready, or you're too shy to send out the right signs. Most people need a little subtle encouragement to show interest.
Everyone I’ve been interested in had thrown it back in my face, saying I’m not good enough for them.
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Everyone I’ve been interested in had thrown it back in my face, saying I’m not good enough for them.
not good enough in what sense? would you agree with what they've said? If so it'd be wise to focus on improving yourself. If you think its untrue, forget about them, you'll find someone better
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I think it's normal
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better to wait than rush & regret it

I had mine at 21
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(Original post by poketwist)
not good enough in what sense? would you agree with what they've said? If so it'd be wise to focus on improving yourself. If you think its untrue, forget about them, you'll find someone better
I guess I wasn’t good enough for that person
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I guess I wasn’t good enough for that person
It's not a question of not being 'good enough', just you weren't for them. It doesn't make you any less good.
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It's not a question of not being 'good enough', just you weren't for them. It doesn't make you any less good.
This right here- 99% of the time this is it
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Not been asked on a date or been in a relationship either.

People make fun of me because of it - they make me feel like a weirdo and that I’ll never find anyone
Depends

Are you fugly? if yes then not bad but expected
If you are good looking then yes quite bad
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No,no and no. Always no. Don't give in to peer pressure, it's hard to think outside of your little social bubble/eco-chamber but generally being a kiss-less relationship-less 17 year old is no big deal.
It's not bad either. In fact it might be good, you can experience it at an age where you're even more mentally matured to endure hardships
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(Original post by IWillAlwaysH8U2)
Depends

Are you fugly? if yes then not bad but expected
If you are good looking then yes quite bad
I wouldn’t describe myself as ugly but I wouldn’t say I’m good looking either
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Mate it's fine, don't over think it. First kiss is overrated anyway, it will happen when it happens. You'll meet loads of people in the next few years, so just focus on bettering yourself so you can increase your self confidence, and don't be afraid to ask someone out, rather than waiting for them to ask you.
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Mate it's fine, don't over think it. First kiss is overrated anyway, it will happen when it happens. You'll meet loads of people in the next few years, so just focus on bettering yourself so you can increase your self confidence, and don't be afraid to ask someone out, rather than waiting for them to ask you.
I’m not going to uni so it’s unlikely I’ll meet people
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I’m not going to uni so it’s unlikely I’ll meet people
Bruh half my mates didn't go to uni but they still met people. Unless you're becoming a hermit, you should be fine. Most people I know didn't even meet their partners in uni lol.
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Bruh half my mates didn't go to uni but they still met people. Unless you're becoming a hermit, you should be fine. Most people I know didn't even meet their partners in uni lol.
Idk how to meet people though, I’m quite a shy person
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Not been asked on a date or been in a relationship either.

People make fun of me because of it - they make me feel like a weirdo and that I’ll never find anyone
Honestly, embrace the weirdness inside you and move on in your life. you will find THE person later on
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