I do not at all like going to clubs and bars. Not really into that ''culture''. Among my friends, I'm probably the only one who doesn't enjoy it (I say probably cuz I suspect a few others don't either but won't admit it).
My friends have made me feel self-conscious about it like I am a weirdo. We've been friends for many years, since childhood, but they feel like they think they've ''evolved'' and I'm kinda lame.
I still like eating out, going to the movies, long walks, galleries, museums, etc. I am not particularly outgoing or social but I do have many interests.
I wasn't particularly annoyed by it cuz we have many other things in common. But now that one of them told me I need to be more outgoing cuz I will never find anyone, Idk, it hit me differently and maybe I am not ''fun'' enough and I do wish to find love someday?