Why wink and wait for me?

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Each time I messaged him, he would take a day or hours to reply.
Then I told him something and he didn't reply.
On our first date itself, he seemed a bit rather eager to hug, kiss and even wanted me to come to a secluded cottage with him during the holidays.
Then he started acting weird but would still hug but hasn't reached out or replied to my message.

Is he playing mind games?

I gave him one last chance and sent him a message to let me know when he's free this week and then I saw him at campus and where he saw me , he waved and he winked. I thought he was gone but i saw him come back, and stand , trying to say something so I went to him and he said he saw my message, was going to reply, and how he's going to drink tea upstairs. I told him the sane thing that he can let him know when he's free.
He didn't message back but he's online every hour. If he doesn't like me anymore or doesn't want to see me or chat, why wink/wave and come back? He can simply wave and leave or just say he's busy and can't meet up.

Is he doing this intentionally to play mind games or is he no longer interested?
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what's with anons and guys wanting to take them to cottages :rolleyes:
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(Original post by Anonymous)
Each time I messaged him, he would take a day or hours to reply.
Then I told him something and he didn't reply.
On our first date itself, he seemed a bit rather eager to hug, kiss and even wanted me to come to a secluded cottage with him during the holidays.
Then he started acting weird but would still hug but hasn't reached out or replied to my message.

Is he playing mind games?

I gave him one last chance and sent him a message to let me know when he's free this week and then I saw him at campus and where he saw me , he waved and he winked. I thought he was gone but i saw him come back, and stand , trying to say something so I went to him and he said he saw my message, was going to reply, and how he's going to drink tea upstairs. I told him the sane thing that he can let him know when he's free.
He didn't message back but he's online every hour. If he doesn't like me anymore or doesn't want to see me or chat, why wink/wave and come back? He can simply wave and leave or just say he's busy and can't meet up.

Is he doing this intentionally to play mind games or is he no longer interested?
Are you 100% sure he’s single?
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Are you 100% sure he’s single?
He definitely seems like it by how he was hugging me, asking to go on a break with him etc
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what's with anons and guys wanting to take them to cottages :rolleyes:
No idea
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what's with anons and guys wanting to take them to cottages :rolleyes:
Almost like it's the same person or something.
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Almost like it's the same person or something.
It really does make you wonder 🤔
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It really does make you wonder 🤔
Really gets the noggin joggin' and activates the almonds.
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Almost like it's the same person or something.
ikr! so weird isn't? :rolleyes:
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could be he doesn't want to seem to eager, especially after the first date, he might have thought it was a bit full-on and decided to try and use the 'playing hard to get' cliché instead. alternatively, he could have been made fun of for going out with u (no offense i'm sure u're a lovely person) and didn't want to be seen by his mates with you. The final reason could be he just isn't attracted to you. in my opinion, unless YOU are very attracted towards him, just leave him. he could have just been leading you on just for the fun of it- in which case, slap him. you could also confront him and ask why he's acting weirdly. Good Luck!
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could be he doesn't want to seem to eager, especially after the first date, he might have thought it was a bit full-on and decided to try and use the 'playing hard to get' cliché instead. alternatively, he could have been made fun of for going out with u (no offense i'm sure u're a lovely person) and didn't want to be seen by his mates with you. The final reason could be he just isn't attracted to you. in my opinion, unless YOU are very attracted towards him, just leave him. he could have just been leading you on just for the fun of it- in which case, slap him. you could also confront him and ask why he's acting weirdly. Good Luck!
He doesn't have any friends on campus.

But why the wink ??? And if he doesn't like me then why come around??? He can just leave ?
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as i said before, in my opinion unless u want this relationship to happen a lot, then just dump him and find someone who doesn't act weirdly.
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as i said before, in my opinion unless u want this relationship to happen a lot, then just dump him and find someone who doesn't act weirdly.
Thanks. But why is he even doing this? Just wants to get laid ?
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possibly. i don't want to say anything bad about him as it could be that he just be a bit awkward. however he might just want to get laid- that's how our brains are wired
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No.
I bet she'll create thread #64
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At this rate I'm going to need a copy & paste reply for these "please read the mind of someone that you don't know" threads.
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I bet she'll create thread #64
I wouldnt be surprised if she did
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