I slept with someone two days after my break up

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So some background
Me and this guy were talking and dating for around 1 month and then we made it official after that and broke it off around a month later because I found out that he was talking so much **** about me to them and treating me like an object and I broke up with him plus during the relationship he'd say the most disrespectful things but I chalked it down to him not thinking which is true , I know this dude I know he doesn't think , anyway fast forward two nights after the break up I was out with a couple of my mates for drinks and I saw an attractive dude we started dancing and then kissing then I went to his hotel and we hooked up and I wanna know your thoughts
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Congratulations you got over your ex quickly. That makes you super special
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Anonymous #1
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Congratulations you got over your ex quickly. That makes you super special
Was I wrong to hook up with someone else so quickly is what I'm asking
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Was I wrong to hook up with someone else so quickly is what I'm asking
No.
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(Original post by Anonymous)
So some background
Me and this guy were talking and dating for around 1 month and then we made it official after that and broke it off around a month later because I found out that he was talking so much **** about me to them and treating me like an object and I broke up with him plus during the relationship he'd say the most disrespectful things but I chalked it down to him not thinking which is true , I know this dude I know he doesn't think , anyway fast forward two nights after the break up I was out with a couple of my mates for drinks and I saw an attractive dude we started dancing and then kissing then I went to his hotel and we hooked up and I wanna know your thoughts
Well there’s not much to say
( I’m not saying this about you completely btw ) but I learnt growing up that if u love someone u can’t replace them that quickly
It’s like u don’t care enough in the end
I understand that he did treat u very badly but how do u expect someone on tsr to give advice or thoughts on the fact that u hooked up with someone random after ur breakup in 2 days
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Well there’s not much to say
( I’m not saying this about you completely btw ) but I learnt growing up that if u love someone u can’t replace them that quickly
It’s like u don’t care enough in the end
I understand that he did treat u very badly but how do u expect someone on tsr to give advice or thoughts on the fact that u hooked up with someone random after ur breakup in 2 days
If I'm being honest I felt *****y about it cuz I was quite fond of him but what he did really just chucked out everything I felt for him and I was wondering If I was right to do that
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umm you slept with someone, congrats? Not sure there's really an opinion to be held here, you can sleep with who you like when you like..
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Anonymous #1
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I wanna know if I'm a bad person or if I was okay to do that
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umm you slept with someone, congrats? Not sure there's really an opinion to be held here, you can sleep with who you like when you like..
I was just wondering if I'm a bad person for doing that
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Why does it matter what us strangers think?
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I was just wondering if I'm a bad person for doing that
You can do whatever you like, it’s about learning to be happy with your decisions rather than with what you think people might think of them - don’t live your life to please others, especially when they’re not the one in the relationship. There’s no right or wrong way for you to live.
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I was just wondering if I'm a bad person for doing that
Nope, just a normal person.
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I wanna know if I'm a bad person or if I was okay to do that
you were not in a relationship, so you'd be free to do whatever you want.

if you were still in one, then yes, you'd be frowned upon as being a bad person for sleeping with someone random so soon.
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remember the key details and never forget them

1) overage
2) safety
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you were not in a relationship, so you'd be free to do whatever you want.

if you were still in one, then yes, you'd be frowned upon as being a bad person for sleeping with someone random so soon.
Some people might judge, many wouldn't. Sleeping with someone new after a breakup is often part of the processing of the breakup and does not make anyone a 'bad person.'
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