How to forget about a guy?!

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I’m always thinking of him, he is always at the back of my mind, no matter what I do and it seriously affects my concentration but I can’t seem to help it.
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I’m always thinking of him, he is always at the back of my mind, no matter what I do and it seriously affects my concentration but I can’t seem to help it.
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Keep yourself busy, either with work or a hobby. That way your mind will be occupied with other stuff rather than him
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You can't forget him, almost impossible. Keep him out of your view for a start.
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(Original post by 1secondsofvamps)
Keep yourself busy, either with work or a hobby. That way your mind will be occupied with other stuff rather than him
I have a job that keeps me busy but subconsciously he’s still playing in my head. When I need to study I just wonder about him, this is what needs to stop.
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(Original post by HotIronOnEar)
You can't forget him, almost impossible. Keep him out of your view for a start.
Okay so I don’t mean forget, I just mean how not to think of him excessively?
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I’m always thinking of him, he is always at the back of my mind, no matter what I do and it seriously affects my concentration but I can’t seem to help it.
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Okie
so I asked this same question 4 months ago
I wanted to get over a guy and I was OBSESSED with him to the point where I thought he was the loml lol
so here’s what i did

I listened to the songs that reminded me of him on repeat until I didn’t think of him anymore
i wore the hoodie I was wearing when we had our first kiss, I now where it w/o even thinking about that mf
i understood what he did to hurt me and how he messed up, I realised he was a walking red flag
I took his friends and now he regrets everything and wants me back because I focused on myself and ignored his whole entire existence

don’t know if that’s helpful but it’s the advice i got when I was in a rough situation too
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Okie
so I asked this same question 4 months ago
I wanted to get over a guy and I was OBSESSED with him to the point where I thought he was the loml lol
so here’s what i did

I listened to the songs that reminded me of him on repeat until I didn’t think of him anymore
i wore the hoodie I was wearing when we had our first kiss, I now where it w/o even thinking about that mf
i understood what he did to hurt me and how he messed up, I realised he was a walking red flag
I took his friends and now he regrets everything and wants me back because I focused on myself and ignored his whole entire existence

don’t know if that’s helpful but it’s the advice i got when I was in a rough situation too
Well this is useful but I’m in a sticky situation but also kind of similar, so the guy I’m obsessed with I’ve known for a year, he was a great friend but things escalated, then he was busy with uni and I met (who I thought was the love of my life) and we had a lovely 3 months before he had to go back home and a long distance relationship just wasn’t for us. So moving on, I got approached by my “close” friend again and we had an amazing summer. Only problem is, he’s gotten back into a good routine whereas I’m stuck in my thoughts. We try to talk everyday or at least once or twice a week, he just makes me so happy. I just need to be able to actually live without constantly thinking of him. I’ll try what you have suggested because the thing you said about songs actually worked for my ex.
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Okay so I don’t mean forget, I just mean how not to think of him excessively?
Like I said, you'll think less about him if you don't look at him.
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Like I said, you'll think less about him if you don't look at him.
I can’t even see him, he’s miles away
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