This girl

She’s 4 years older than me and we work together. I find her attractive, and often find myself checking her out at work. I think she’s got the message, I hope so anyways since she has invited me out over the weekend. This is a bit PG but I kept getting worked up looking at her. I have her number and I want to initiate that I like her, preferably by flirting with maybe a cheeky kiss when we do meet up. But here’s the deal. Do you reckon I have a chance with her?

Don't presume anything ok

Just don't jump right in with thinking you got a chance with her.

Take it slowly and see how weekend goes first and you can always ask her if she would like to come out again with you and see what she says.

Try keeping your working relationship and any personal relationship separate from each other but still talk etc to her in work.

Good luck for weekend.

She’s 4 years older than me and we work together. I find her attractive, and often find myself checking her out at work. I think she’s got the message, I hope so anyways since she has invited me out over the weekend. This is a bit PG but I kept getting worked up looking at her. I have her number and I want to initiate that I like her, preferably by flirting with maybe a cheeky kiss when we do meet up. But here’s the deal. Do you reckon I have a chance with her?

Would things be awkward between us if it isn’t separated

Yes it could be awkward between you's but it isn't illegal like to have a work colleague relationship as it does happen. Only thing is it could be awkward if things don't work say ...!!! But you's would get over it and be friends / work colleague still.

True. Anyways, fair point. I’m obviously not that stupid to just rush things but I definitely feel like there can be something there. I don’t know if she’s interested though, that’s the thing. I can’t tell if she asked me out of pity, or if it was out of attraction