My mum has thought for a while i might have autism and my doctor has said its a possibility. But i am confused because while i do have some autistic traits, i feel fine and fairly happy most of the time, and a lot of the videos/things i read about autism talk about having trauma, always feeling like an outsider and struggling everyday which i don't think is me. Is it possible for me to still be autistic even though i feel fine most of the time? I am also not sure if the reason i feel fine is because i am lucky enough to have a nice family and a very close, stable group of friends and i have not had to experience any big changes/issues so maybe this could all change when i leave for uni next year.
(For context, some of the autistic traits i think i may have are anxiety over new situations, delayed coordination skills, difficulty moderating my feelings when stressed, I often appear rude or blunt, I dislike eye contact with people I don't know and when I was younger I had a lot of sensory issues and I hated physical contact (I don't so much anymore. though).