My husband gets hard but doesn’t want to have sex?

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Is this normal? Can you have a boner but not want anything done about it?

So we’ll be spooning or something and he’ll get really hard but he won’t initiate sex and if I do, he changes the topic.

We do have sex almost every other day but there are days we don’t and he will clearly have a boner but just won’t want to have sex.

I tried giving him a handjob and he immediately got hard but pushed my hand away and started talking about something completely different. I understand I have a very high sex drive and he doesn’t at all but I assumed if you’re not turned on you don’t get hard to begin with. Help!
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Is there something on his mind? Have you tried talking. I wouldn't worry its very common in men
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Is there something on his mind? Have you tried talking. I wouldn't worry its very common in men
He says life shouldn’t revolve around sex. I completely agree but I don’t understand how he can just ignore it when he’s clearly got a boner. It’s killed me self esteem.
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He says life shouldn’t revolve around sex. I completely agree but I don’t understand how he can just ignore it when he’s clearly got a boner. It’s killed me self esteem.
Have you directly asked him the question. Is there something he would prefer. There's obviously something more to it that he's not sharing.Could is be PE.
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Have you directly asked him the question. Is there something he would prefer. There's obviously something more to it that he's not sharing.Could is be PE.
Whenever we have sex it’s completely normal. He says it’s not that important to him so I guess he just had a very low libido and mine is too high.
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