My partner is struggling to get hard whilst sex

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my boyfriend is currently 17. in the past we had sex, he's been able to get hard without a problem. yesterday morning he was able to get hard randomly as he's in the mood even whilst we're not having sex. however in the afternoon we were in bed and he wasn't able to get hard even after 2 hrs of being in bed. after awhile he managed to get hard once but after 2 mins of intercourse he wasn't hard anymore.

he's just as confused as I am, he doesn't understand why that's the sudden issue and tells me that he was in the mood and reassures me that its not my fault because it has never happened before. his sex drive seems to be fine, its just the problem of getting an erection. i try my best to reassure him that im not upset/mad at him about it since its something he does feel bad and embarrassed about although he cant control it.

can anyone please give suggestions on how to prevent this from happening again or reasons why it might be the case??? thank you
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There's not much wrong with him as he is capable of things when he obviously want to do things with you or outwith.
Sometimes stress, tiredness, anxiety can creep in at wrong time but he probably be fine say tomorrow as difficult to say,
Any concerns should be talked over with your GP just for reassurance if anything for you both.

I'm a nhs registered midwife but you should if any worries speak to his GP.


Have a look through this okay.
https://www.nhs.uk › mens-health

Why can I not get and keep an erection? - NHS

(Original post by Anonymous)
my boyfriend is currently 17. in the past we had sex, he's been able to get hard without a problem. yesterday morning he was able to get hard randomly as he's in the mood even whilst we're not having sex. however in the afternoon we were in bed and he wasn't able to get hard even after 2 hrs of being in bed. after awhile he managed to get hard once but after 2 mins of intercourse he wasn't hard anymore.

he's just as confused as I am, he doesn't understand why that's the sudden issue and tells me that he was in the mood and reassures me that its not my fault because it has never happened before. his sex drive seems to be fine, its just the problem of getting an erection. i try my best to reassure him that im not upset/mad at him about it since its something he does feel bad and embarrassed about although he cant control it.

can anyone please give suggestions on how to prevent this from happening again or reasons why it might be the case??? thank you
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