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If someone went on a date with ulterior motives like obtaining sex from the date but didn't get any physical intimacy past the 2nd date.
Then got angry and decided not to text her or meet the guy/girl anymore, would you delete their number, block or keep their number saved?
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If someone used me for sex I'd certainly not be interested in communicating with them again, so I'd block and delete their number.
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Depends if they were dishonest or nasty.
If so, I'd block online and change my number then delete their contact info.
If not, keep their number and leave the door open to casually chat or meetup for drinks/business event as part of a group.
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Delete.
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Anonymous #1
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(Original post by ROTL94 2)
If someone used me for sex I'd certainly not be interested in communicating with them again, so I'd block and delete their number.
No I mean if you cut this person off if you felt they wouldn't give you sex then what would you do? Keep their number saved or delete?
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(Original post by londonmyst)
Depends if they were dishonest or nasty.
If so, I'd block online and change my number then delete their contact info.
If not, keep their number and leave the door open to casually chat or meetup for drinks/business event as part of a group.
No I mean if you cut this person off if you felt they wouldn't give you sex then what would you do? Keep their number saved or delete?
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Definitely delete it
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Anonymous #1
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(Original post by Angel in the sky)
Definitely delete it
I mean if you cut this person off if you felt they wouldn't give you sex then what would you do? Keep their number saved or delete?
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Probably delete?

Getting angry is certainly a negative, that is pretty immature tbh. It is likely that the person only wanted sex if they are getting angry and ghosting.

I can see why some might not like the fact that there was no physical intimacy past the 2nd date though (but getting angry is pathetic like I said) because physical intimacy is quite important for some people. It can sort of show a lack of physical attraction and a person might think you are just using them for entertainment.
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Probably delete?

Getting angry is certainly a negative, that is pretty immature tbh. It is likely that the person only wanted sex if they are getting angry and ghosting.

I can see why some might not like the fact that there was no physical intimacy past the 2nd date though (but getting angry is pathetic like I said) because physical intimacy is quite important for some people. It can sort of show a lack of physical attraction and a person might think you are just using them for entertainment.
Only 1 date properly
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No I mean if you cut this person off if you felt they wouldn't give you sex then what would you do? Keep their number saved or delete?
Delete and move on to find a more sexually compatible individual looking for a ons/casual sex arrangement.
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(Original post by londonmyst)
Delete and move on to find a more sexually compatible individual looking for a ons/casual sex arrangement.
If someone still keeps the number after cutting contact what could this mean?
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idk about deleting it, if this man has issues wouldn't it be more dangerous to delete it also if he chooses to ignore you wouldn't he still have this issue and make it someone else's issue? maybe deleting it would be too harmful especially if he gets angry towards u. U could try talking to him about it if not then maybe try to distance yourself till he moves on.
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If someone still keeps the number after cutting contact what could this mean?
Lazy about deleting numbers, forgotten that they have it or might one day be open to chatting again.
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(Original post by londonmyst)
Lazy about deleting numbers, forgotten that they have it or might one day be open to chatting again.
They just saw the person they cut off yesterday but the number is still saved
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I don't delete people's phone numbers, so it'd remain in my contacts regardless.
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I mean if you cut this person off if you felt they wouldn't give you sex then what would you do? Keep their number saved or delete?
Delete everything
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Block and delete
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