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SO me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 years and lately he's been very distant and wants to spend more time with his friends than me. Last night,he asked if I was in the mood for sex. Now mind you,he had just came in and it was 3 in the morning. I said no so he went right back out.Come to find out,he cheated on me with my bestfriend. When I confronted him about it he said it was because I can't accept the fact that he likes to have fun like any other guy. Just a few hours ago he dmed and asked to meet up after school? What should I do?
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how old are you?
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Dump him he ain’t worthy of you, just coming back wanting to have sex only and cheats on you for your best friend just a lack of disrespect to be honest you can do better than him
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I despair.
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SO me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 years and lately he's been very distant and wants to spend more time with his friends than me. Last night,he asked if I was in the mood for sex. Now mind you,he had just came in and it was 3 in the morning. I said no so he went right back out.Come to find out,he cheated on me with my bestfriend. When I confronted him about it he said it was because I can't accept the fact that he likes to have fun like any other guy. Just a few hours ago he dmed and asked to meet up after school? What should I do?
drop him
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you are worth more than just sex , get rid of him
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how old are you?
21. Aug 19,1999
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ah well id drop him tbh
he cheated on you
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Impossible.
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SO me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 years and lately he's been very distant and wants to spend more time with his friends than me. Last night,he asked if I was in the mood for sex. Now mind you,he had just came in and it was 3 in the morning. I said no so he went right back out.Come to find out,he cheated on me with my bestfriend. When I confronted him about it he said it was because I can't accept the fact that he likes to have fun like any other guy. Just a few hours ago he dmed and asked to meet up after school? What should I do?
get rid of him
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Dump him
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SO me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 years and lately he's been very distant and wants to spend more time with his friends than me. Last night,he asked if I was in the mood for sex. Now mind you,he had just came in and it was 3 in the morning. I said no so he went right back out.Come to find out,he cheated on me with my bestfriend. When I confronted him about it he said it was because I can't accept the fact that he likes to have fun like any other guy. Just a few hours ago he dmed and asked to meet up after school? What should I do?
Hi there.

I'm sorry to hear this . I would advise distancing yourself from him but trying not to become hostile towards him or your best friend - I completely understand if you would feel this way towards them. This means your reputation isn't ruined and you can move on knowing you were never in the wrong.

I wish you all the best with finding a genuine life long partner.
Take care.
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SO me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 years and lately he's been very distant and wants to spend more time with his friends than me. Last night,he asked if I was in the mood for sex. Now mind you,he had just came in and it was 3 in the morning. I said no so he went right back out.Come to find out,he cheated on me with my bestfriend. When I confronted him about it he said it was because I can't accept the fact that he likes to have fun like any other guy. Just a few hours ago he dmed and asked to meet up after school? What should I do?
When did he message you, was it the day you found out or after? I think it's best if you take some time to yourself to process it, then in a couple of weeks if you're up for it see if he still wants to have a chat?
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21. Aug 19,1999
So who is still at school?
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Impossible.
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Dump him AND the “best friend”
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Just a few hours ago he dmed and asked to meet up after school
Are you going out with a schoolchild then?
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Teenage relationships shouldn’t be a thing, they are incapable of it at such young ages
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I'm 21. I'm not a teenager
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I'm 21. I'm not a teenager
It's because you said "after school" and your 21 - people think you're trolling.
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