Getting out of ur head on a date

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Lately on dates I’ve been too in my head and can only talk intellectually and find it hard to be open. Keep getting told I’m hard to get to know and have lots of barriers. It’s not attractive. But I get so nervous and lack confidence even in my body. How can I change this next time? Btw I’m a young woman.

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You can't exactly leave your head at home.
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On a serious note, some men will be intimidated by your intelligence but you might find someone who can have an intellectual conversation at the same level at you.
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(Original post by hungrysalamander)
You can't exactly leave your head at home.
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On a serious note, some men will be intimidated by your intelligence but you might find someone who can have an intellectual conversation at the same level at you.
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I mean even if they are also intellectual it stops any sparks or intimacy tbh I go very deadpan and detached out of nerves and don’t know how to hype myself up for match their energy :/ I think they find it really boring I’m not usually like that but it’s nerves and I feel like they don’t find intellectual that sexy so I get insecure
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Tips from girls maybe
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