Hi!
I really need some advice and I didn’t know where to turn. I have been with my boyfriend for five and a half years, I’m 23 and he is 32.
for the past four years I would say our sex life has been very poor. We used to be fine but then it has been going downhill for years.
We have sex about once every couple of weeks to once a month and we are supposedly trying to conceive. This isn’t the main thing that bothers me as I am young and children can wait.
I have quite a high sex drive and would like sex at least two to three times a week but this isn’t ever going to happen I feel.
He has been to the doctors and has been diagnosed with high iron which fan permanently negatively affect his sex drive. I just don’t think I can cope with this forever but everything else is perfect.
I miss the excitement as any time we have sex we are drunk and I’m so frustrated every day. He only lasts about a minute when we do have sex but honestly this doesn’t bother me as we have foreplay.
I don’t want to break up with him but also he is my first partner and I have never experienced a good sex drive that I want, I feel like things are becoming awkward now and it’s only going to get worse. Because it is due to a medical conditional I feel like I can’t say anything anymore so I’m stuck.
Any advice would be greatly appreciated.