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My boyfriend has gone travelling around South America for a few weeks. How do I deal with the anxiety of him being away? The time difference is not going to help either.
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This is definitely a tricky situation. I would say, keep remembering that it's only temporary and that you'll be able to see him again in a few weeks. Also try and keep yourself busy so you're not thinking about it all the time.
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My boyfriend has gone travelling around South America for a few weeks. How do I deal with the anxiety of him being away? The time difference is not going to help either.
My boyfriend has gone travelling around South America for a few weeks. How do I deal with the anxiety of him being away? The time difference is not going to help either.
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Go out with your girlfriends, spend time with your family, cousins.
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Go out with your girlfriends, boyfriends, spend time with your family, cousins.
Go out with your girlfriends, boyfriends, spend time with your family, cousins.
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R u anxious just coz he's away? Or coz he's in SOUTH AMERICA? I'm part South American and I can tell u the legend is not a myth.... it's true the girls are hotter and more open and more fun there esp Colombianas lol! Watch the movie too...
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(Original post by agnos987)
maybe they mean male friends?
maybe they mean male friends?
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I guess we'll pretend that a taken girl hanging out with other guys in her spare time is a totally cool thing to do in a relationship
I guess we'll pretend that a taken girl hanging out with other guys in her spare time is a totally cool thing to do in a relationship
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Can’t you maybe, FaceTime or Skype him daily. Though maintain a form of contact and communication because it is key though it’s only a matter of few weeks.
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people aren't allowed friends of the opposite sex?
people aren't allowed friends of the opposite sex?
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(Original post by Joel 96)
In a relationship, this is a really contextual answer, but generally no because of the dynamics that exist between males and females.
In a relationship, this is a really contextual answer, but generally no because of the dynamics that exist between males and females.
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(Original post by j25_8)
South America? Tell him to roll strapped😬
South America? Tell him to roll strapped😬
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R u anxious just coz he's away? Or coz he's in SOUTH AMERICA? I'm part South American and I can tell u the legend is not a myth.... it's true the girls are hotter and more open and more fun there esp Colombianas lol! Watch the movie too...
R u anxious just coz he's away? Or coz he's in SOUTH AMERICA? I'm part South American and I can tell u the legend is not a myth.... it's true the girls are hotter and more open and more fun there esp Colombianas lol! Watch the movie too...
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Can’t you maybe, FaceTime or Skype him daily. Though maintain a form of contact and communication because it is key though it’s only a matter of few weeks.
Can’t you maybe, FaceTime or Skype him daily. Though maintain a form of contact and communication because it is key though it’s only a matter of few weeks.
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(Original post by Jimbo1902)
This is definitely a tricky situation. I would say, keep remembering that it's only temporary and that you'll be able to see him again in a few weeks. Also try and keep yourself busy so you're not thinking about it all the time.
This is definitely a tricky situation. I would say, keep remembering that it's only temporary and that you'll be able to see him again in a few weeks. Also try and keep yourself busy so you're not thinking about it all the time.
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Ahaha I know, worried about that
Ahaha I know, worried about that
As for you? You’re both gonna be busy but I’d recommend you just maintained contact w eachother even if it’s one text a day. Just knowing he’s alright will put you at ease and just let him know you’re waiting for him back at home - he will appreciate that a lot & thank you for it
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(Original post by Joel 96)
I guess we'll pretend that a taken girl hanging out with other guys in her spare time is a totally cool thing to do in a relationship
I guess we'll pretend that a taken girl hanging out with other guys in her spare time is a totally cool thing to do in a relationship
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In a relationship, this is a really contextual answer, but generally no because of the dynamics that exist between males and females.
In a relationship, this is a really contextual answer, but generally no because of the dynamics that exist between males and females.
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PERFECT TIME TO CHEAT ON HIM
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im joking!! You could schedule phone callls with him that work for both of u? Or if that cant happen you could just write eachother letters!
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Really? Wow that would suggest trust issues. It would also be really sad to limit someone on who they can be friends with based on gender.
Really? Wow that would suggest trust issues. It would also be really sad to limit someone on who they can be friends with based on gender.
In a healthy relationship, both parties should acknowledge the problems that come from having friends of the opposite sex. Men, in particular, should grow some balls. If you're letting your woman go out with some guy friends, then you've already failed her "**** testing".
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