Guys of TSR, why do you do this?

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Why do you slide into someone's DMs and then text them/ give them super fast replies for the first couple of days, and then after that leave you on delivered for long periods of time even though it's obvious you were online and saw that we've messaged you? It's so upsetting because it feels like my game wasn't right or I want interesting enough for then to continue talking to me.
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I've never done this. I could do this to you tho if you'd like.
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The problem I think you’re having is that you think this site’s acronym stands for The Singles Room. It doesn’t. Now, stop using a student website to date and get back to revising for your GCSEs.
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I don't slide into DM's
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I don't. Stop projecting your **** experiences on to random strangers.
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(Original post by hungrysalamander)
I don't slide into DM's
Yeah you trudge in like a miserable old sod
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(Original post by CosmicApathy1)
I've never done this. I could do this to you tho if you'd like.
Yeah you seem like you're dying to do it so go on

(Original post by Son of the Sea)
The problem I think you’re having is that you think this site’s acronym stands for The Singles Room. It doesn’t. Now, stop using a student website to date and get back to revising for your GCSEs.
I posted in the relationships forum. It's a site for students. Be quiet.
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Yeah you trudge in like a miserable old sod
I'm only 18 you disrespectful 14 year old fetus.
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Yeah you trudge in like a miserable old sod
I was going to say something along those lines :five:
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i can't afford dms fam
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Never done it. It strikes me as an online extension of the 'treat em mean, keep em keen' approach, and I never liked that either
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(Original post by hungrysalamander)
I'm only 18 you disrespectful 14 year old fetus.
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Just doing my job :banana:
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They’re not h0rnee anymore…
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Why do you slide into someone's DMs and then text them/ give them super fast replies for the first couple of days, and then after that leave you on delivered for long periods of time even though it's obvious you were online and saw that we've messaged you? It's so upsetting because it feels like my game wasn't right or I want interesting enough for then to continue talking to me.
They're probably looking for something other than a normal conversation. After the first few messages they could see you couldn't give them what they wanted, so they slid to a different user. It's an online site, no one actually has the obligation to reply.

If you're on tsr solely to find love, then I don't think it's the place. There's online dating sites for this reason. There's a relationship forum on TSR not because people are on here solely for a love life but because as a student, you need advice on relationships. Advice, not a lover.

Be realistic, save the unnecessary heartbreak and look for someone you won't have constant doubts about.
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(Original post by Anonymous)
Why do you slide into someone's DMs and then text them/ give them super fast replies for the first couple of days, and then after that leave you on delivered for long periods of time even though it's obvious you were online and saw that we've messaged you? It's so upsetting because it feels like my game wasn't right or I want interesting enough for then to continue talking to me.
Girls do this too
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(Original post by AmIReallyHere)
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Just doing my job :banana:
How much time did you spend to come up with that?
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How much time did you spend to come up with that?
Check the timestamps!!
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I posted in the relationships forum. It's a site for students. Be quiet.
So? This isn’t somewhere to date. Now shut it and go to bed.
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You talking about TSR messages? I don't even message anyone on TSR lol.

**** knows why that other guy ghosted you. We're not mind readers :lol:
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Guys only stop messaging when they sense a lack of interest from you, or they want to talk about something that you don't. If you were more engaging, they would talk to you more. If not, they gonna look elsewhere. It's not rocket science.
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