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Im under incapacity to work benefits health benefits which are universal credit and personal independence payment and I live in a two bedroom house, I'm 22 and I recieve roughly just over a grand a month, she gets universal credit and carers allowance and she gets roughly £800 a month, I pay £500 a month
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I once opened up to my sister about it and she tried to help me but my other sister then convinced me that I should be paying £500 a month and I tried talking to my mum about it but she's a very manipulative person and guilt trips me into me paying that amount, I just needed an outside opinion, I may book an appointment with my psychologist and talk to them about it to ask how I can deal with it, thank you
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My mum is very manipulative and guilt trips me into paying it, I'm gonna talk to my occupational therapist about it to ask how to deal with it, thank you
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Sorry the first one didn't seem like it sent, ignore the second one
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I once opened up to my sister about it and she tried to help me but my other sister then convinced me that I should be paying £500 a month and I tried talking to my mum about it but she's a very manipulative person and guilt trips me into me paying that amount, I just needed an outside opinion, I may book an appointment with my psychologist and talk to them about it to ask how I can deal with it, thank you
I once opened up to my sister about it and she tried to help me but my other sister then convinced me that I should be paying £500 a month and I tried talking to my mum about it but she's a very manipulative person and guilt trips me into me paying that amount, I just needed an outside opinion, I may book an appointment with my psychologist and talk to them about it to ask how I can deal with it, thank you
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My mum is very manipulative and guilt trips me into paying it, I'm gonna talk to my occupational therapist about it to ask how to deal with it, thank you
My mum is very manipulative and guilt trips me into paying it, I'm gonna talk to my occupational therapist about it to ask how to deal with it, thank you
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Im under incapacity to work benefits health benefits which are universal credit and personal independence payment and I live in a two bedroom house, I'm 22 and I recieve roughly just over a grand a month, she gets universal credit and carers allowance and she gets roughly £800 a month, I pay £500 a month
Im under incapacity to work benefits health benefits which are universal credit and personal independence payment and I live in a two bedroom house, I'm 22 and I recieve roughly just over a grand a month, she gets universal credit and carers allowance and she gets roughly £800 a month, I pay £500 a month
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If you think it's too much then move out and pay less?
If you think it's too much then move out and pay less?
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Thinking about the bigger picture, it might cost more for OP to move out!
Thinking about the bigger picture, it might cost more for OP to move out!
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If the OP thinks they are paying too much then surely not.
If the OP thinks they are paying too much then surely not.
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By the way if OP can't move out, then OP is trapped unless the parents push the rent to above market rates then there is an arbitrage to move out!
By the way if OP can't move out, then OP is trapped unless the parents push the rent to above market rates then there is an arbitrage to move out!
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Im under incapacity to work benefits health benefits which are universal credit and personal independence payment and I live in a two bedroom house, I'm 22 and I recieve roughly just over a grand a month, she gets universal credit and carers allowance and she gets roughly £800 a month, I pay £500 a month
Im under incapacity to work benefits health benefits which are universal credit and personal independence payment and I live in a two bedroom house, I'm 22 and I recieve roughly just over a grand a month, she gets universal credit and carers allowance and she gets roughly £800 a month, I pay £500 a month
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How much of that is rent and how much is your share of electricity, water, gas, internet, council tax, food...? Where do you live?
You're posting on a student site and £500 per month is less than many students will be paying for a basic room in a shared house, which probably won't include any of the above.
You're posting on a student site and £500 per month is less than many students will be paying for a basic room in a shared house, which probably won't include any of the above.
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