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Hi there! So me and my girlfriend have been in a relationship for a little over a year.. Usually in the relationship I'm the submissive type, but I sometimes act dominant to give her a change. Either way the other day she asked me if she could strap me down or tie me down and have sex.. I was kind of startled by this and confused.. I'm not sure if I want to- and I don't have the guts to tell her no.. she's been satisfying me and it would be really rude if I didn't give it to her back. I'm not sure if she's acting like almost a mommy type or some sort of kink?
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do it anyway it sounds funny
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do it anyway it sounds funny
Yeah but it sounds kind of painful and a bit embarrassing..
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If you don’t want to do it, tell her that. Don’t do anything sexual that you aren’t comfortable with just because your partner wants you to. And if she tries to make you do it after you’ve told her you don’t want to, break up with her.
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Yeah but it sounds kind of painful and a bit embarrassing..
dont do it then
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mhm I agree, but whenever I ask her for a favor she always helps me out.. and I'm just wondering if any of you guys have experience with this or any thoughts
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If I'm being honest.. I don't know much about her kinks and I'm really urging to ask her.. I'm just not sure how to start a conversation like that
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If I'm being honest.. I don't know much about her kinks and I'm really urging to ask her.. I'm just not sure how to start a conversation like that
youve been with her for a year shouldnt that be pretty easy to ask her casually ?
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youve been with her for a year shouldnt that be pretty easy to ask her casually ?
just to ask her out it took me like a month to build up my confidence x-x luckily she asked me out so..
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just to ask her out it took me like a month to build up my confidence x-x luckily she asked me out so.
i aint even got a girlfriend i cant give you advice sorry
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i aint even got a girlfriend i cant give you advice sorry
No worries! Have a good day :P
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If u ain comfortable w it, ur gonna have to find the confidence somewhere. No point doing smth you don't like

Not like she would mind much either
Plus after a year together you should be able to ask her what her kinks are
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If u ain comfortable w it, ur gonna have to find the confidence somewhere. No point doing smth you don't like

Not like she would mind much either
Plus after a year together you should be able to ask her what her kinks are
yeah.. im not even sure how shes attracted to me and at this point I feel pathetic
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If you don’t want to do it, tell her that. Don’t do anything sexual that you aren’t comfortable with just because your partner wants you to. And if she tries to make you do it after you’ve told her you don’t want to, break up with her.
I agree, but she usually doesn't force me to do it. But I don't want her to be disappointing in me, and she's the only one who views me as a person and not a pet
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I agree, but she usually doesn't force me to do it. But I don't want her to be disappointing in me, and she's the only one who views me as a person and not a pet
To be honest with you mate, I think you have deeper problems than your girlfriend wanting to have weird sex. What 'usually doesn't force me to' mean exactly? Why do you allow other people to 'see you as a pet'?
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yeah.. im not even sure how shes attracted to me and at this point I feel pathetic
Dude you've been together for over a year pick your sorry booty up and get some confidence. Sub not equal to useless wimp
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Hi there! So me and my girlfriend have been in a relationship for a little over a year.. Usually in the relationship I'm the submissive type, but I sometimes act dominant to give her a change. Either way the other day she asked me if she could strap me down or tie me down and have sex.. I was kind of startled by this and confused.. I'm not sure if I want to- and I don't have the guts to tell her no.. she's been satisfying me and it would be really rude if I didn't give it to her back. I'm not sure if she's acting like almost a mommy type or some sort of kink?
ur a cuck
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Hi there! So me and my girlfriend have been in a relationship for a little over a year.. Usually in the relationship I'm the submissive type, but I sometimes act dominant to give her a change. Either way the other day she asked me if she could strap me down or tie me down and have sex.. I was kind of startled by this and confused.. I'm not sure if I want to- and I don't have the guts to tell her no.. she's been satisfying me and it would be really rude if I didn't give it to her back. I'm not sure if she's acting like almost a mommy type or some sort of kink?
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If I'm being honest.. I don't know much about her kinks and I'm really urging to ask her.. I'm just not sure how to start a conversation like that
It's okay to say no. I don't think it would be good if only one of you were enjoying it.
Also, it's normal to randomly bring up a topic like kinks, I'm sure she wouldn't mind it. If anything she might be pleased that you want to know?
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To be honest with you mate, I think you have deeper problems than your girlfriend wanting to have weird sex. What 'usually doesn't force me to' mean exactly? Why do you allow other people to 'see you as a pet'?
well im kind of nervous to tell people to stop using me.. so I just let it go
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well im kind of nervous to tell people to stop using me.. so I just let it go
Please consider some kind of counselling or therapy. Letting people use you is not good for you.
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