I don't know whether to see her again or not (feel very uncertain)?Watch this thread
Well she's only said she wants to "hang-out", so she's not exactly proposing marriage. It sounds like it ended badly for you last time, maybe you could express your concerns and see what she says.
Can you realistically see any kind of future with this girl? If not, then there's little point in going
If you don't want to be friends or are not open to interacting with her again, it is fine to just say no.
Then end all contact and switch your social media to private so that she won't be able to see your social media.
You are the wounded party you still hang on to the slightest hope after being deemed 'second best' - that something might be ..... Stop the hurt and be very wary (your friend enlightens you) Beware - it is so easy to be used again and spat out again when the time suits. You deserve better. This girlfriend sounds quite ruthless to use people to suit her needs when it suits. This is a character trait. She is also unlikely to stop looking for grass that is greener on the other side of the fence throughout a lifetime.
In response ..... a couple of quotes for you
1) Curiosity killed the cat
2) Would you give your hand again to a dog that just bit you - just to check it bites?
(NB - There is no inference that the lady here is a 'dog' )
This mixing and matching many times is quite the norm before you decide to commit later to someone special. How will you know when you have reached the top of the mountain if you stop halfway? You have already been deemed second best - and that is no reflection on you ...... go out there and find your own absolute treasure.
So I ducked out saying I was sick with a cold which is partly true. And she said we could meet when I'm better, but thinking things over this girl really makes me sick the way she has treated me, expecting me to come back after ghosting me for someone else. If she writes back I'm going to dump her hard and give her a piece of my mind. Really want to make her cry tbh. Though she's probably got the message and I guess she'll just block me.
You could rant on at her for three pages of texts or say really terrible stuff about her, and if she just goes "cool story bro" you'll be destroyed.