lots of girls following my boyfriend on instagram? red flag?

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I don't wanna sound crazy but my boyfriend has lots of girls following him on Instagram, I noticed he not following them back, but their are like hardly any guys following him. Is he cheating?
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You expect strangers to know? You sound crazy.
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Hi,

I don't wanna sound crazy but my boyfriend has lots of girls following him on Instagram, I noticed he not following them back, but their are like hardly any guys following him. Is he cheating?
perhaps they follow him because they think he's attractive, while guys don't usually find other guys attractive. I cannot say for certain that he isn't cheating but I can say that you have insufficient evidence to make that assumption.
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Hi,

I don't wanna sound crazy but my boyfriend has lots of girls following him on Instagram, I noticed he not following them back, but their are like hardly any guys following him. Is he cheating?
You’re too paranoid
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probably because your bf is attractive to them too. those girls following him might not be aware that you are dating him. also, if he's not following them back, that shouldn't be a problem???
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Lol! What deep trauma socials cause! This is the least problematic thing ever compared with the usual TSR postings on these topics u know "Hey TSR gurus I phone-snooped and found bfs OF account and omg! he's subscribed to my bestie's page and she's so slutty she shows her naked butt I never knew she had OF or that he was interested!! Do u think I should be worried?" etc.
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Hi,

I don't wanna sound crazy but my boyfriend has lots of girls following him on Instagram, I noticed he not following them back, but their are like hardly any guys following him. Is he cheating?
No, it just means girls follow him. If you think he's cheating, bring it up to him and ask him about it.
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90% of my friends / followers on social media are women and I've been single for years lol.
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Hi,

I don't wanna sound crazy but my boyfriend has lots of girls following him on Instagram, I noticed he not following them back, but their are like hardly any guys following him. Is he cheating?
Do you think the girls are dm him on Instagram?
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A lot of people follow random strangers on instagram & twitter hoping to increase their social media follower count and number of likes or retweets.
It sounds like you have a lot of insecurity or jealousy and deep trust issues that you need to address before they ruin your relationship.
Good luck!
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Another one of these threads? Marvellous. Social media was a mistake.
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Another one of these threads? Marvellous. Social media was a mistake.
You owe me two cups of tea for the amount of times you've made me snort laughing into my cup.
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If there is any insecurities or discomfort then the madam should have the choice to be able to say how she feels about it and sit down and discuss it there’s boundaries for a reason within a relationship and both the boyfriend and girlfriend should respect it and the whole purpose whilst in a relationship any concerns or uncomfort should then be spoken of…
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If there is any insecurities or discomfort then the madam should have the choice to be able to say how she feels about it and sit down and discuss it there’s boundaries for a reason within a relationship and both the boyfriend and girlfriend should respect it and the whole purpose whilst in a relationship any concerns or uncomfort should then be spoken of…
Which is why communication is key hiding something between the both or one and other leads to a breakdown and understanding and a good level of respectful and mannerism is essential.
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If you think he's cheating, you shouldn't be in a relationship as you're worrying about something that isn't true.

High likelihood that girls follow him because he's attractive.
Guys don't follow other guys (unless they are a model or genuinely attracted towards guys).

Focus on creating happy memories in person together, and not what is on social media.
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I get being jealous but you do have to try to find ways to cope. These girls are following him it's not even the other way round. Even if he were there are other explanations than he's cheating, for example I follow so many people from school that I have little interest in and I have plenty of friends of the opposite sex.
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Worrying times my friend worrying times. Keep one eyeball out.
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