Fancy this boy at work

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It’s obviously just lust at the moment but he’s 100% someone I’d date and have a future with. We sometimes talk when he’s in the office but obvs we are working most of the time. He’s very caring and messages me on skype fo do how I’m doing. I just want him so badly it sucks. I wish we didn’t work together or weren’t on the same team at least
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Y not be naughty? I have a great idea to catch his attention and encourage him to think differently about u lol!
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Y not be naughty? I have a great idea to catch his attention and encourage him to think differently about u lol!
Nah got to stay professional but if it wasn’t the work place I definitely would’ve made a flirtatious remark! Our convos are always super PG
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Nah got to stay professional but if it wasn’t the work place I definitely would’ve made a flirtatious remark! Our convos are always super PG
If you're concerned about being flirty at work then why not ask him out after work?
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If you're concerned about being flirty at work then why not ask him out after work?
I mean we both work at a bank which means 90% of a time is at work lol. I suppose I could ask whilst we are at work and then go on a date after work, yeah.
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That's not wat I meant...I agree never contaminate the actual workplace but if u r ready to go flirty how about this.

Here's Candy's plan. Remember I am bold and inventive lol! So u set up an OF page. It's private. U take some nice selfies showing bare butt with heels and sexy undies. Bend over to feature ur curves. No face or identifying items in the shot ofc. Now u burnish the pics and set them up. At some point during a socially appropriate moment u know like after work when u r talking Love Island or watever and he is talking his prefs u show the dude ur OF page on ur phone. Now remember a) he has no idea it's ur page and b) he can't imagine u would be fun enuf to do something like this.

Nobody else gets to see it.

Also if he doesn't get curious right away u have followup options. Like u take some new pics and post them then the next week u say to him "heyy dude u remember that hot chica on OF from last week she posted some more...she has a rlly nice butt! Whaddya think? I think she's hott and I think I wanna go gay for her like Lily James...." let him stew on this revelation. This is a v powerful method and best of all, u don't reveal it's u unless he starts salivating and says I want that! Then u say...well, there's something I need to tell u...but only over drinks... let's go out... in this way u capitalize on ur feminine powers without risk
The more posts i see from this user the more worrying it gets to think about who’s behind it ngl
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It’s obviously just lust at the moment but he’s 100% someone I’d date and have a future with. We sometimes talk when he’s in the office but obvs we are working most of the time. He’s very caring and messages me on skype fo do how I’m doing. I just want him so badly it sucks. I wish we didn’t work together or weren’t on the same team at least
Do you have an idea of how he feels about you? I mean if you think he might be into you as well, then I would say actually have a open chat with him and tell him how you feel (if you are ready to go for that leap of course). If it all workouts, then AMAZING, and send me a wedding invite haha
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this reminds me of jim and pam from the office
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It’s obviously just lust at the moment but he’s 100% someone I’d date and have a future with. We sometimes talk when he’s in the office but obvs we are working most of the time. He’s very caring and messages me on skype fo do how I’m doing. I just want him so badly it sucks. I wish we didn’t work together or weren’t on the same team at least
I met my boyfriend at work. We didn't directly work together, but we did have quite a lot of contact for our jobs. Even worse, as this was with the military, we were both living on base and it was difficult to be away from everyone's scrutiny of our relationship!

We just kept it professional at work and lowkey in public areas on base, though we did socialise with work friends; we just ignored the gossip and questions. The hardest thing would be if it didn't work out and you've still got to work together and have other people comment. We decided we could cope with that and went for it; better to try than miss out, and we don't regret it! If you think you could deal with worse case scenarios, ask him (over Skype) to meet up outside of workfor coffee, lunch, whatever, but pick your venues carefully and initially go for places where you won't bump into others from the bank. Good luck!
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Nah got to stay professional but if it wasn’t the work place I definitely would’ve made a flirtatious remark! Our convos are always super PG
Why? Isn’t meeting people at the workplace ideal? Just have to make sure you act maturely if things get sour. Go for it you might be missing out on a great relationship.
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Y not be naughty? I have a great idea to catch his attention and encourage him to think differently about u lol!
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It’s obviously just lust at the moment but he’s 100% someone I’d date and have a future with. We sometimes talk when he’s in the office but obvs we are working most of the time. He’s very caring and messages me on skype fo do how I’m doing. I just want him so badly it sucks. I wish we didn’t work together or weren’t on the same team at least
Ask him to be your bf.
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Do you have an idea of how he feels about you? I mean if you think he might be into you as well, then I would say actually have a open chat with him and tell him how you feel (if you are ready to go for that leap of course). If it all workouts, then AMAZING, and send me a wedding invite haha
Yes he seems to invest a lot of personal interest in me and sometimes suggests going for coffee ( at work obvs) but idk I don’t want to be too keen or jeopardise or work relationship
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The more posts i see from this user the more worrying it gets to think about who’s behind it ngl
A woman.
A woman who is not afraid to express herself.
She said it, she is bold.
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A woman.
A woman who is not afraid to express herself.
She said it, she is bold.
They exude a certain confidence in their posts
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My suggestion got censored coz it was too explicit lol! I didn't even use any naughty words
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They exude a certain confidence in their posts
I guess so.
Though, I wonder how it would be seen if it was a man doing the same and saying that he is bold.
Not trying to judge her or anything, but I wonder.
I feel like the opinions would be full of hatred and disgust.
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A woman.
A woman who is not afraid to express herself.
She said it, she is bold.
She’s a clearly girl who sounds like a lunatic cmon. Just call a spade a spade
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She’s a clearly girl who sounds like a lunatic cmon. Just call a spade a spade
I mean, she is the one who said that; not me...
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