My girlfriend doesn’t want sex often

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It isn’t often my girlfriend wants to have sex, which is fine. However, sometimes she feels bad for me, and initiates it with me anyway. How do I check with her that it’s what she actually wants before we do anything, without ruining the mood?
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Just speak to her about it (when you are not about to have sex) and make it very clear that you are OK with you not having sex very often and that you only want her to initiate it when she wants to have sex, not when she feels she has to.
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Tell her u don't want pity sex but like black tea said ask her to let u know when she is ready and willing.
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(Original post by black tea)
Just speak to her about it (when you are not about to have sex) and make it very clear that you are OK with you not having sex very often and that you only want her to initiate it when she wants to have sex, not when she feels she has to.
She does know this, I've told her this lots.
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(Original post by candydiva)
Tell her u don't want pity sex but like black tea said ask her to let u know when she is ready and willing.
She knows this
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She's probably not sexually attracted to you and trying to get you into one of those relationships where you work your ass off providing for her and she lives stress free, flossing with your hard earned money.

If I were you, I would give her an ultimatum. No sex = gtfo my house
This is not true in the slightest
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Has she been showing signs of insecurity about her body?
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(Original post by Anonymous)
It isn’t often my girlfriend wants to have sex, which is fine. However, sometimes she feels bad for me, and initiates it with me anyway. How do I check with her that it’s what she actually wants before we do anything, without ruining the mood?
Has it been like this throughout the relationship, or is this something you've noticed recently? I think this is important to know.
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