My girlfriend doesn’t want sex oftenWatch this thread
Just speak to her about it (when you are not about to have sex) and make it very clear that you are OK with you not having sex very often and that you only want her to initiate it when she wants to have sex, not when she feels she has to.
She's probably not sexually attracted to you and trying to get you into one of those relationships where you work your ass off providing for her and she lives stress free, flossing with your hard earned money.
If I were you, I would give her an ultimatum. No sex = gtfo my house
It isn’t often my girlfriend wants to have sex, which is fine. However, sometimes she feels bad for me, and initiates it with me anyway. How do I check with her that it’s what she actually wants before we do anything, without ruining the mood?