i think my gay friend likes me.. but i'm straight.

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i'm friends with this girl, who is gay. she's not my best friend, but i know her through my friends and she is really sweet. i realised that recently, she's been hugging me an awful lot, saying that i give 'really good hugs' and resting her head on my shoulder for minutes. i'd understand if we were really close friends, but we aren't that close. i have seen her with her best friends, and honestly, she doesn't really do this to them.
in the lunch queue today, she bit my arm playfully. my friend, L, questioned her and she said that it's her 'love language'.
I'm a girl who's about 5'9 in height, and she's around 5'4. while she was giving me a tight long hug in the lunch queue, she said exactly: 'i think i'm into tall girls' and looked up to me.
my friend, L, said 'wow you moved on quick' - as she might have had a crush on someone else, and the girl just laughed.

idk i just don't want to bring the wrong impression to her. i'm not sure if she knows that i am straight, but surely through friends she should know?
i don't know, maybe i'm over thinking this?
she is the sweetest girl though
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(Original post by Anonymous)
i'm friends with this girl, who is gay. she's not my best friend, but i know her through my friends and she is really sweet. i realised that recently, she's been hugging me an awful lot, saying that i give 'really good hugs' and resting her head on my shoulder for minutes. i'd understand if we were really close friends, but we aren't that close. i have seen her with her best friends, and honestly, she doesn't really do this to them.
in the lunch queue today, she bit my arm playfully. my friend, L, questioned her and she said that it's her 'love language'.
I'm a girl who's about 5'9 in height, and she's around 5'4. while she was giving me a tight long hug in the lunch queue, she said exactly: 'i think i'm into tall girls' and looked up to me.
my friend, L, said 'wow you moved on quick' - as she might have had a crush on someone else, and the girl just laughed.

idk i just don't want to bring the wrong impression to her. i'm not sure if she knows that i am straight, but surely through friends she should know?
i don't know, maybe i'm over thinking this?
she is the sweetest girl though
Maybe casually bring up the topic of some rando guy to make sure she knows? I might be in the same boat but not so bad....yet ☠
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Maybe casually bring up the topic of some rando guy to make sure she knows? I might be in the same boat but not so bad....yet ☠
OH **** M'MAN
this is um embarassing
why are you in the same boat 😭
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OH **** M'MAN
this is um embarassing
why are you in the same boat 😭
Lol why's it embarrassing?
I think the gay guy in my class likes me
What did you think HAHA

AYO TF M'LADY HAHAHHAHAHA
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I didn't even realise till the m'man kicked in my brain 30 seconds after ☠☠
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She sounds sweet and fun. U should hang out with her. And u know if u haven't tried a girl yet she could give u a nice gentle intro
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Tell her that you have your boundaries and it makes you uncomfortable.

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Lol why's it embarrassing?
I think the gay guy in my class likes me
What did you think HAHA

AYO TF M'LADY HAHAHHAHAHA
Lol tell me more.
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She sounds sweet and fun. U should hang out with her. And u know if u haven't tried a girl yet she could give u a nice gentle intro
‘How do you know that you are gay? You haven’t met every man!’
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‘How do you know that you are gay? You haven’t met every man!’
I'm not. I'm bi-
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I'm not. I'm bi-
I wasn’t commenting on your sexuality.
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I'm not. I'm bi-
You’re missing the point of both post #1 and #8.
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Sorry I don't get it... #8 directly quoted me and then asked a question using the pronoun "you" - so that is clearly intended to ask me a Q and I answered :confused:
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Lol why's it embarrassing?
I think the gay guy in my class likes me
What did you think HAHA

AYO TF M'LADY HAHAHHAHAHA
YOU WEREN'T MEANT TO -
WOW OKAY
hell naw😭
wellll i guess we both have secret admirers hmm?
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i'm friends with this girl, who is gay. she's not my best friend, but i know her through my friends and she is really sweet. i realised that recently, she's been hugging me an awful lot, saying that i give 'really good hugs' and resting her head on my shoulder for minutes. i'd understand if we were really close friends, but we aren't that close. i have seen her with her best friends, and honestly, she doesn't really do this to them.
in the lunch queue today, she bit my arm playfully. my friend, L, questioned her and she said that it's her 'love language'.
I'm a girl who's about 5'9 in height, and she's around 5'4. while she was giving me a tight long hug in the lunch queue, she said exactly: 'i think i'm into tall girls' and looked up to me.
my friend, L, said 'wow you moved on quick' - as she might have had a crush on someone else, and the girl just laughed.

idk i just don't want to bring the wrong impression to her. i'm not sure if she knows that i am straight, but surely through friends she should know?
i don't know, maybe i'm over thinking this?
she is the sweetest girl though
Perhaps just try and somehow bring up the matter in general conversation. But if it turns out that she has in fact got the wrong impression, then try and let her down gently, as I'm sure she'd be feeling a little embarrassed about the whole thing and knowing you aren't exactly comfortable with everything. Good luck with the situation though.
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You’re missing the point of both post #1 and #8.
sal, its fine, just let it be

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sal, its fine, just let it be

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(Original post by hungrysalamander)
Tell her that you have your boundaries and it makes you uncomfortable.


Lol tell me more.
i'd like to know more too mr six seeming as you weren't meant to be here so it's the least you could do smh 🙄
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i'm friends with this girl, who is gay. she's not my best friend, but i know her through my friends and she is really sweet. i realised that recently, she's been hugging me an awful lot, saying that i give 'really good hugs' and resting her head on my shoulder for minutes. i'd understand if we were really close friends, but we aren't that close. i have seen her with her best friends, and honestly, she doesn't really do this to them.
in the lunch queue today, she bit my arm playfully. my friend, L, questioned her and she said that it's her 'love language'.
I'm a girl who's about 5'9 in height, and she's around 5'4. while she was giving me a tight long hug in the lunch queue, she said exactly: 'i think i'm into tall girls' and looked up to me.
my friend, L, said 'wow you moved on quick' - as she might have had a crush on someone else, and the girl just laughed.

idk i just don't want to bring the wrong impression to her. i'm not sure if she knows that i am straight, but surely through friends she should know?
i don't know, maybe i'm over thinking this?
she is the sweetest girl though
yeah talk about a guy you like... make it up even... but imply you simply arent interested. get a friend to help. let her friends know too if youre comfortable with that. but sooner rather later, you feel me?
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I would rep you but reps for anon don’t count. Who are you anyways?
awww ookay

hmm take a guess

one only though
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Give me a clue.
im goingg soon... uhhh

im part of the DERAILING thread
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