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i think my gay friend likes me.. but i'm straight.

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Original post by Anonymous
That's cool with me, I'm used to the deep waters 😈

Correct there's literally 1 other anon how'd u forget 😭

cool beans, you better find some mermaid and shii then 😈😈

OMG IM THE OTHER ANON I FOGOT
I’m the cooler anon πŸ™„πŸ™„πŸ˜­
Original post by Anonymous
i'm friends with this girl, who is gay. she's not my best friend, but i know her through my friends and she is really sweet. i realised that recently, she's been hugging me an awful lot, saying that i give 'really good hugs' and resting her head on my shoulder for minutes. i'd understand if we were really close friends, but we aren't that close. i have seen her with her best friends, and honestly, she doesn't really do this to them.
in the lunch queue today, she bit my arm playfully. my friend, L, questioned her and she said that it's her 'love language'.
I'm a girl who's about 5'9 in height, and she's around 5'4. while she was giving me a tight long hug in the lunch queue, she said exactly: 'i think i'm into tall girls' and looked up to me.
my friend, L, said 'wow you moved on quick' - as she might have had a crush on someone else, and the girl just laughed.

idk i just don't want to bring the wrong impression to her. i'm not sure if she knows that i am straight, but surely through friends she should know?
i don't know, maybe i'm over thinking this?
she is the sweetest girl though


Get rid
Original post by Anonymous
I’m a funny *****, what can I sayyy
you sometimes say that I’m stupid ffs πŸ™„
Bad b? Basic white b?
LOLZ can’t relate 😫😫

ily too 😭

What u talking about dude I was talking to someone else not u πŸ™„
Oh but you are.. just like rn 😭😭
Nvm I got it okay I got it ☠ I just didn't see what part of what I said was basic white b whatever lol
Good for youu :colonhash:

Here comes in that love/hate trope again 😭
Original post by Anonymous
cool beans, you better find some mermaid and shii then 😈😈

OMG IM THE OTHER ANON I FOGOT
I’m the cooler anon πŸ™„πŸ™„πŸ˜­

Cool Beans πŸ’€ pls
Isn't that meant to be you, or Ima keep looking 😭

LOL 3RD ONE JUST JOINED
Uh excuse me 😐 that'd be... Me 😁
Bet 😈
i literally would say to her face im striaght yk
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Original post by Food!!
i literally would say to her face im striaght yk

Uuh no you wouldn't
Original post by ukii
Uuh no you wouldn't

how would yk if i would or not ukii :rofl:
Original post by Food!!
how would yk if i would or not ukii :rofl:

Yeah no clue pika 😭
Original post by ukii
Yeah no clue pika 😭

spying on me again hmm?
I can say 100% she would say it straight up 😭😭
Original post by candydiva
She sounds sweet and fun. U should hang out with her. And u know if u haven't tried a girl yet she could give u a nice gentle intro :wink:

Ok no please don't use her to experiment. OP, let her know that you aren't interested in girls. Bring up some guy in a conversation or talk about celebrity crushes or something. I'm the gay girl who likes her straight friend (although I haven't bitten her and I'm not planning on it lol and we're at different unis atm so I can't hug her). I used to do the hugging and head on shoulders thing (although I usually am affectionate to all my friends anyway lol) hoping that maybe she might be bi or something but then we had a conversation about the lgbtq+ community and she said she was straight. It really hurts. But her making it clear that she's not into girls removed the sense of false hope that I had before and it helped me start moving on. So just be straight with her (ba-dum tsh XD) and let her know that you're not into girls at all. It will make it hurt less and make things less awkward for you.
Original post by Food!!
spying on me again hmm?

Wuuut :confused:

πŸ˜‚ Funny with the extra hmm

What are you a microwave
Original post by Anonymous
Ok no please don't use her to experiment. OP, let her know that you aren't interested in girls. Bring up some guy in a conversation or talk about celebrity crushes or something. I'm the gay girl who likes her straight friend (although I haven't bitten her and I'm not planning on it lol and we're at different unis atm so I can't hug her). I used to do the hugging and head on shoulders thing (although I usually am affectionate to all my friends anyway lol) hoping that maybe she might be bi or something but then we had a conversation about the lgbtq+ community and she said she was straight. It really hurts. But her making it clear that she's not into girls removed the sense of false hope that I had before and it helped me start moving on. So just be straight with her (ba-dum tsh XD) and let her know that you're not into girls at all. It will make it hurt less and make things less awkward for you.

Just be straight with her.
I cannot take that line seriously

But that's good advice, OP, soak it in
Original post by ukii
Wuuut :confused:

πŸ˜‚ Funny with the extra hmm

What are you a microwave

smh yk :rolleyes:
no but i go in one :tongue:
Original post by Slx.24
I can say 100% she would say it straight up 😭😭

haha yk me very well :giggle:
Original post by ukii
Just be straight with her.
I cannot take that line seriously

But that's good advice, OP, soak it in

I know I laughed at myself when I typed that out lmao
Original post by Food!!
smh yk :rolleyes:
no but i go in one :tongue:

:goofy:
So you're full of energy :colone:
Original post by Anonymous
Ok no please don't use her to experiment. OP, let her know that you aren't interested in girls. Bring up some guy in a conversation or talk about celebrity crushes or something. I'm the gay girl who likes her straight friend (although I haven't bitten her and I'm not planning on it lol and we're at different unis atm so I can't hug her). I used to do the hugging and head on shoulders thing (although I usually am affectionate to all my friends anyway lol) hoping that maybe she might be bi or something but then we had a conversation about the lgbtq+ community and she said she was straight. It really hurts. But her making it clear that she's not into girls removed the sense of false hope that I had before and it helped me start moving on. So just be straight with her (ba-dum tsh XD) and let her know that you're not into girls at all. It will make it hurt less and make things less awkward for you.

Basically what I said but about 5x better and 4x longer :rofl:
Original post by ukii
:goofy:
So you're full of energy :colone:

exactly :giggle:
Original post by Food!!
exactly :giggle:

Good thing i like energy πŸ™ƒ
Original post by Slx.24
Basically what I said but about 5x better and 4x longer :rofl:

Lol XD

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