i'm friends with this girl, who is gay. she's not my best friend, but i know her through my friends and she is really sweet. i realised that recently, she's been hugging me an awful lot, saying that i give 'really good hugs' and resting her head on my shoulder for minutes. i'd understand if we were really close friends, but we aren't that close. i have seen her with her best friends, and honestly, she doesn't really do this to them. in the lunch queue today, she bit my arm playfully. my friend, L, questioned her and she said that it's her 'love language'. I'm a girl who's about 5'9 in height, and she's around 5'4. while she was giving me a tight long hug in the lunch queue, she said exactly: 'i think i'm into tall girls' and looked up to me. my friend, L, said 'wow you moved on quick' - as she might have had a crush on someone else, and the girl just laughed.
idk i just don't want to bring the wrong impression to her. i'm not sure if she knows that i am straight, but surely through friends she should know? i don't know, maybe i'm over thinking this? she is the sweetest girl though
I’m a funny *****, what can I sayyy you sometimes say that I’m stupid ffs 🙄 Bad b? Basic white b? LOLZ can’t relate 😫😫
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What u talking about dude I was talking to someone else not u 🙄 Oh but you are.. just like rn 😭😭 Nvm I got it okay I got it ☠ I just didn't see what part of what I said was basic white b whatever lol Good for youu
She sounds sweet and fun. U should hang out with her. And u know if u haven't tried a girl yet she could give u a nice gentle intro
Ok no please don't use her to experiment. OP, let her know that you aren't interested in girls. Bring up some guy in a conversation or talk about celebrity crushes or something. I'm the gay girl who likes her straight friend (although I haven't bitten her and I'm not planning on it lol and we're at different unis atm so I can't hug her). I used to do the hugging and head on shoulders thing (although I usually am affectionate to all my friends anyway lol) hoping that maybe she might be bi or something but then we had a conversation about the lgbtq+ community and she said she was straight. It really hurts. But her making it clear that she's not into girls removed the sense of false hope that I had before and it helped me start moving on. So just be straight with her (ba-dum tsh XD) and let her know that you're not into girls at all. It will make it hurt less and make things less awkward for you.
Ok no please don't use her to experiment. OP, let her know that you aren't interested in girls. Bring up some guy in a conversation or talk about celebrity crushes or something. I'm the gay girl who likes her straight friend (although I haven't bitten her and I'm not planning on it lol and we're at different unis atm so I can't hug her). I used to do the hugging and head on shoulders thing (although I usually am affectionate to all my friends anyway lol) hoping that maybe she might be bi or something but then we had a conversation about the lgbtq+ community and she said she was straight. It really hurts. But her making it clear that she's not into girls removed the sense of false hope that I had before and it helped me start moving on. So just be straight with her (ba-dum tsh XD) and let her know that you're not into girls at all. It will make it hurt less and make things less awkward for you.
Just be straight with her. I cannot take that line seriously
Ok no please don't use her to experiment. OP, let her know that you aren't interested in girls. Bring up some guy in a conversation or talk about celebrity crushes or something. I'm the gay girl who likes her straight friend (although I haven't bitten her and I'm not planning on it lol and we're at different unis atm so I can't hug her). I used to do the hugging and head on shoulders thing (although I usually am affectionate to all my friends anyway lol) hoping that maybe she might be bi or something but then we had a conversation about the lgbtq+ community and she said she was straight. It really hurts. But her making it clear that she's not into girls removed the sense of false hope that I had before and it helped me start moving on. So just be straight with her (ba-dum tsh XD) and let her know that you're not into girls at all. It will make it hurt less and make things less awkward for you.
Basically what I said but about 5x better and 4x longer