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My test came back and it is negative. His results haven’t come back because he took a long time to go get tested and didn’t make it his priority. Also when I told him he wanted to call the clinic? ( asif I was lying) he just seemed so fishy.
Can I get some advice. I do feel bad now about the way I spoke to him but he would be so patronising to me and I never expected him to be I thought he would be supportive instead of saying ‘I’m accusing him and that he’s going to loose his temper’. Everytime I came off the phone to him I cried because he made me feel 100% worse. I removed him off all socials before my results came in and after the argument but kept him on WhatsApp. I said I’ll never see him again because of the way he handled this situation.
So, it’s now going to down the best if you accuse someone of deliberately infecting you and they didn’t. And I suppose if the did they’re likely to be defensive too. If you want to get back on track you might have to apologise. But since he’s behaved like a complete arse, perhaps it’s best to kick him in to touch. But, with regard to herpes it’s so common you almost have to accept it as an risk of being sexually active.