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Anyway, she did reach out and all saying she wanted to explain herself after I gave her over a week to do so (and I was wiling to listen) but I never heard from her. But she reached out after I removed her saying she was ‘so busy’. By this point anyway I’ve been over what we had because I realise how detrimental our friendship was to my mental health and didn’t deserve to be treated the way I was. We haven’t spoken now for just over two weeks now since I got rid of her and I’ve been so much happier than I was.
What I don’t understand now is how yesterday evening she liked two videos of mine that I posted. Why would she do this when I’ve ignored her twice now, it’s been over 2 weeks and it’s evident I don’t want to be friends with her. It makes no sense to me?
I think you will find its a bit of a mind games thing with her? Maybe she is in a volatile state of mind and flip flopping between memories of when she liked the things you did together and what she is doing today? It sounds like she is still in that behaviour mind set where she hurt you? Just ignore her if you think by further communication you will only get hurt (again)