i've been in a relationship for 4 years now. i'm 19 and my bf is 23. for the past 2 months, there has come a gap between us. we used to video call everyday but now we barely do. his family doesn't know about me (and there's no way to change that rn) so he can't talk to me in front of them. he shares a room with his sister so she's mostly always around which is why it is difficult for us to talk. this is exacerbated by the fact that he has started going to the gym and gets back by 11 pm. he also attends to his family business from 10-7.
now the thing is: i know he's busy and it's not like he doesn't talk to me on purpose. but because we're in different countries and i attend uni, i feel like im missing out on a lot. i love him but i hate that we barely communicate anymore. other people around me seem so happy with their partners and im just wasting my uni life on a guy i haven't seen irl for like 9 months now. i thought i could deal with long distance but now that we barely talk, it's just getting harder. is someone rlly that busy that they cant take out an hour to talk to their partner ;-(
help. what should i do?