I've been on 3 dates with this guy and it's going great. I have anxiety so I have a hard time showing my emotions but i'm doing my best.
He's made it clear he'd like me to communicate openly about my emotions because he can't be sure otherwise how I feel but he hasn't communicated anything like that himself? So I havent either..
I would feel most comfortable taking it in text due to my social anxiety, just ask him what he's looking for and what his expectations are, and it's usually not a problem but I can't get a moment to text him this when he never chats with me... He only ever texts me to make plans, and if I text him he's rarely online and the conversation is dry and ends quickly. It's only like that over text, in person it's easy to talk.
I'm seeing him again tuesday and I don't want to be pushy. I am a person who needs space and to move slowly so if he is too I know how annoying it can be and you dont want to feel pressured. But we have been on three dates now. He even kissed me on our last date. He likes me clearly so why is he on tinder?? If you've seen someone three times you usually start to feel it's getting serious. It's making me very anxious especially when I don't know if I can text him and talk about where we stand, as preferably i'd wanna know when I meet him again.
It would help in knowing how to feel about the date and what to expect and what mindset to go in with. I saw he'd been on tinder because his location updates and location on tinder only updates if you've been active on the app. I think it's possible he doesn't know what I feel (every guy i've ever met said I am impossible to read) and i'd express how I feel best in text as well as it would help for the next date, i'd feel more comfortable and be myself if we had talked about where we stand.
So what should I do? Should I just text him and talk about the date and then switch the topic to what our intensions are going forward??