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Reply 1
I've already tried it I meant
I'm sure the escorts or sex workers appreciate your cash payment. :cool:
Original post by Anonymous
I just can't be bothered going out spending money and approaching women (because Joe already tried it multiple times) and I feel genuinely love don't exist anyways..

Who's Joe?
It's your grim life, we don't want to make these choices for you :cool:
Original post by summerbirdreads
Who's Joe?


Joe Mama




I had to.
Original post by Anonymous
I just can't be bothered going out spending money and approaching women (because Joe already tried it multiple times) and I feel genuinely love don't exist anyways..

Your money, your time; therefore your prerogative.

Personally, I don't see any moral issues with it; on the condition that:-

a) You're single and not cheating on someone
b) The escort is working of her own free will (i.e. not forced /tricked /coerced into the industry; not on drugs etc.).
c) You respect her limits and boundaries.

However, remember not all girls will be willing to have a partner who admits to using escorts. Also, if you use too many of them for too long, it may make it impossible for any "real" women to ever satisfy you (they're probably very good looking... they're good their "services" etc.). But you say you don't believe in love, so I'm guessing you've resided to remain single forever (MGTOW?), so that makes the drawbacks more theoretical than real.
Reply 7
Original post by Anonymous
I just can't be bothered going out spending money -

but you'll spend money on escorts. Does not compute....
Original post by Surnia
but you'll spend money on escorts. Does not compute....

The difference is, in one case "results are guaranteed", in the other they're not
Reply 9
Original post by Justvisited
The difference is, in one case "results are guaranteed", in the other they're not

No, they aren't. And it depends on what result you want; you might get fed up of impersonal meaningless encounters...
Sloppy seconds? ewwwww.
Original post by Anonymous
I just can't be bothered going out spending money and approaching women (because Joe already tried it multiple times) and I feel genuinely love don't exist anyways..


While i have never felt the need to pay for sex myself i have little objection in principle. Casual sex is ultimately just a transaction (pleasure for the male, feigned initimacy for the woman quite often) and so it one wishes to cut out the middle man and perform the transaction more efficiently then i don't see why people should object (historical social stigma aside).

It becomes a problem if that is your only form of female intimacy however or you kid yourself into believing that you don't need the value that a real relationship brings to you emotionally.
It's an honest thing to do and it's your right to spend your money as you so wish as long as you're not braking the law. Is it any worse than doing what millions of blokes do every weekend, which is get plastered and try and hit on girls in bars and nightclubs, hoping to get one home to bed or get a number with that goal in mind. Actually I think it is a better thing to do than that as it saves a lot of effort and the annoyance of getting rebuffed and going to crap bars and clubs which are mostly expensive. I really want to go to an escort tbh, I find it really difficult to go through with though. Really I'm through with hitting on girls in bars and clubs. the girls who go to those places where I live are mostly up themselves and aren't at all interested in me. I don't even like dating, most girls turn me down and when I get a date the girl usually spends ages deciding if they actually like me and mostly I'm not even into them, and if they like you, you have to put up with all the crap they throw at you. I hate it when girls get emotional on me and just want to dump them when they get like that really. So yes nothing wrong with what you're doing.
Reply 13
A problem is that most of the pleasure comes from someone being enthusiastic about doing it with you. Another is the potential exploitation of vulnerable young women. Its not bad per say
Original post by Zarek
A problem is that most of the pleasure comes from someone being enthusiastic about doing it with you. Another is the potential exploitation of vulnerable young women. Its not bad per say

To be fair, I'm sure even prostitutes have their preferred / favourite clients
well at least this industry is legal in the UK, sadly not in the US, except for certain parts of Nevada
Original post by Anonymous
I just can't be bothered going out spending money and approaching women (because Joe already tried it multiple times) and I feel genuinely love don't exist anyways..

Dont waste your money on them, theyre never going to be your girlfriend, and once you have no money you will feel worse and these girls will want nothing to do with you

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