So I went to a male friends (long time friendship) birthday with my gf at his family home. My gf is friendly but can be deemed as flirty when very drunk.
Towards the end of the night, my gf and my friend went into the kitchen to get drinks, but about 15 mins later he pulled me to one side and said he ‘****ed up’.
His story is that she came onto him: gave him the eyes, grabbed his thigh, and ended up flashing her t**s*, and he grabbed her ass. He was upfront and apologetic, my gf said nothing.
When confronting my gf the day after, she only mentioned the ass grab, said she was groped and mentioned nothing about flashing. But she went mental, shouting, screaming, saying she was groped, that I was a bad bf, and gaslighting me.
Only on the second time confronting her did she ever mention flashing (she said he pulled her top down). I know she would have never mentioned it unless I said it, I know for for a fact.
I feel like a mug and I don’t know who to trust anymore and it’s really f****** with my mental health.
She avoids the point (the convo isn’t about her actions it’s about how she was ‘groped’ and how awful I am), she blames me, she gets crazy angry, makes up excuses (‘I was so drunk’), plays the victim card, and is clearly never honest about any of it unless I know otherwise.