How do you politely/nicely ask if a mate of yours is gay??!

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If it's the one I'm thinking of, on Flinders Lane, then yes, I think my friends and I did go there ionce - age group is older tho, when we went, but it was still cool.

I think it's also open around lunchtime, it's like a cafe as well, pretty neat.
Cool.

I only remember it because that was the place I pulled a stunningly fit Australian bird when I was there.
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Cool.

I only remember it because that was the place I pulled a stunningly fit Australian bird when I was there.
And let me tell you, that aint no coincidence ...... jst jokes, I'm kidding lol!!! Well an Aussie won miss Universe last year, so I'm allowed to say that atm
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And let me tell you, that aint no coincidence ...... jst jokes, I'm kidding lol!!! Well an Aussie won miss Universe this year, so I'm allowed to say that atm
Hehe.

Melbourne's a fantastic place - many fond memories. I was there fore the Grand Prix in 2003. Particularly liked the Dandedong National Park, where you can see across the skyline. We also spent some time staying at some Australian girl's holiday home in Rosebud.
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Hehe.

Melbourne's a fantastic place - many fond memories. I was there fore the Grand Prix in 2003. Particularly liked the Dandedong National Park, where you can see across the skyline. We also spent some time staying at some Australian girl's holiday home in Rosebud.
Cool Rosebud's in Sydney hey, I know b/c one of my distant cousins (from none other than Manchester UK, there u go, small world) is temporarily living there atm, and she loves it!
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:hmph: I wanna go to Australia

Visit my great Auntie in Brisbane .. *sigh* Won't happen though, will it?
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Oh well, at least I'm a glorious beacon of light now
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Cool Rosebud's in Sydney hey, I know b/c one of my distant cousins (from none other than Manchester UK, there u go, small world) is temporarily living there atm, and she loves it!
Well the Rosebud I stayed at was in Melbourne:

http://www3.visitmelbourne.com/displ...0000/vvt.vhtml

Ok, well technically just outside it, on the Northern end of the Mornington Peninsula. But hell, Melbourne is such a big place, and Australia is so huge, that one might as well count it as being part of Melbourne!
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Well the Rosebud I stayed at was in Melbourne:

http://www3.visitmelbourne.com/displ...0000/vvt.vhtml

Ok, well technically just outside it, on the Northern end of the Mornington Peninsula. But hell, Melbourne is such a big place, and Australia is so huge, that one might as well count it as being part of Melbourne!
Ah, I thought there was two. The reason why I mentioned the Sydz one coz of all the British tourists that flock there during the summer months :p:
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It's ok guys, just received a text from the interstate friend - she admits that she was really pissed! So she may have just been acting under the influence :cool:
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It's ok guys, just received a text from the interstate friend - she admits that she was really pissed! So she may have just been acting under the influence :cool:
there you go, It was the Alcohols fault although she could still be gay/BI :confused:
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Well now what is there to talk about? :eek? I don't wanna go to bed.
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Well now what is there to talk about? :eek? I don't wanna go to bed.
Me neither i'm not tired yet, it's only 2:30 AM :eek:
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Well I called her (the interstate friend [#1] ) and subtly got out of her that yes, she is attracted to other males, so I doubt she's gay. Whether she's Bi or not, I don't know, but even if she was - she's not been acting weird around me lately, and tbh - she's a good mate, so I do not care. Thus, I've dropped the issue, there you go.

As for the dodgy girl (no.#2) that let us in the club, after talking to sum1 who knows her well, it's official - she's Bi :rolleyes:

Not that there's anything wrong with that, but because she's admitted she's attracted to me :eek: I'll be keeping my distance... but from her only

Otherwise interstate mate and me are back to being friends again, yay
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So, the question is - what would be the sexuality of those two girls, and how could I ask them??? I need to be polite about it, as they're both on the sensitive side and don't wanna offend them. Plus, apart from their behaviour last night (which I admit could've been influenced by alcohol), they're decent people. Nice even.
Umm I've asked a good mate if he was gay. I said "Umm can I ask you a question, it doesn't matter either way what the answer is, I'd just prefer to know, Are you Gay?".

He replied "Nope", he wasn't offended or anything. Best to come straight out with it as I felt uncomfortable at times before.
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no they not gay they r bisexual. it doesnt hurt to try it out if u wana, and yes most ppl r interested. but u don have to do anything u dont want to.
its definately not the alcohol
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no they not gay they r bisexual. it doesnt hurt to try it out if u wana, and yes most ppl r interested. but u don have to do anything u dont want to.
its definately not the alcohol
I'm not worried about that now, have sorted it out (interstate mate is straight, clubgirl is bi, but I'm not that good friends with bi girl), but thanks for the input
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