Struggling to get driving license

I got my licence when I was 20 I think, after 6 fails. Finally passed on the 7th with no minors. I can't remember if I failed by stacking up a bunch of minors or getting a major, but I supposed it doesn't matter now.

I have bad anxiety around driving and won't drive to places I don't know if there are other people in the car. I'm also dyspraxic and can't get my head around spacial awareness so I feel like I'm driving a monster truck, when in fact it's a VW golf...

It's hard to learn to drive. It's hard TO drive. idk if you're a man or a woman (reactions can differ depending on gender to this for some reason) but I do get not wanting to date someone who can't drive - you do become the DD and other people think they can exploit that because it's "easy for you, you have a car". No one should be making fun of you though. I've been told that I shouldn't have been allowed a licence because I took so many tries to pass and it should be capped at two attempts...wtf does that even mean lol, I passed the same test as everyone else

Just keep trying. You'll get there eventually even if the interim seems impossible. I was always booking my retries with tears streaming down my face!

Is it really a turn off to date someone who can’t drive?

Generally, yeah. If you live in a driving-dependent place though. I'm in London, no one even talks about driving as it's more normal to use public transport. When I was living in Dubai I was driving everywhere, I had to (even though taxis are cheap it was easier to just get a car). No one wants to feel the onus of travelling - definitely makes the work put in feel one-sided at the start, especially with "well can you just come to me? It's only x minutes away, and you have a car" or "can you pick me up and drive me to x? I know it's super out of your way but you have a car it's easier for you"

I’m in London and a girl, I don’t think I’d move somewhere driving dependent unless I had learned how to drive

I've re-read the part about your dates going off you - you sure it's because you can't drive, or is it because you're whining about not being able to? If I was on a first date with someone and they started talking about how anxious they are on the road and they can't do something because of lack of confidence etc (despite having driving anxiety myself) it would be a turn off...not because they can't drive, but because of how they dealt with their issue. I've dated loads in London and have never been asked once whether I can drive or if I have a car. My assumption here is that you're either bringing it up yourself and complaining, or responding to the question with complaints. Just say you don't because you don't need to - if you have to answer the question at all.