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Older Fresher and girls

keep anon, the subject might use this forum!

anyway, there's a 28 year-old fresher that lives in our block. Now the guy is sound as a bell but on night outs he tends to pull (like the rest of us in fairness). i personally have no problem with this but the other day one of the girls in the block came to me and said she felt uncomfortable with him hitting on her... in fairness to him, we all get along great and there is a lot of flirting, not least by me, with the girls in the house.

the question is how should i proceed? i havn't talked to him because he's doing nothing more than the rest of us so i feel its pretty unfair really but at the same time he is 10 years older than us and if it makes the girls uncomfortable then maybe something should be said?

tricky situation...any advice?
Reply 1
don't get involved, it's not your place. i know you will probably want to be chivalrous but i would definitely not get directly involved.
I wouldn't get involved to be honest. Let the girl talk to the other guy by herself, or with a friend if needed.
Reply 3
What the hell has it got to do with you?
Reply 4
im sure the girls are more than capable of looking after themselves tbh. was probably just an observation she mentioned in passing, not a hint for you to go saying stuff to him!!
we have older freshers here too & i do think its a bit weird they put all the mature students into halls with 18yr olds.
Reply 5
its not your place...dont get involved