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    Yeah don't be judgemental you prudes!
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    I'm 19, and been having sex since 15, and yet I've only done it with 4 people.
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    male, 19, 15
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    Female, 18, six. Two male, four female.
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    female,18 ..none
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    (Original post by Mijdge)
    Female, 18, six. Two male, four female.
    At the same time!
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    (Original post by vapid slut magician)
    hmmm i must be doing something wrong then
    It's a bit worrying if a girl sleeps with guys just to feel good about herself anyway. Plenty of incredibly plain/ugly girls who offer it on a plate get to sleep with very good-looking guys so only a deluded girl would think she's achieved much by convincing a guy to sleep with her.
    If you're going to do anything like that, do it for the pleasure you get out of it. If you're not getting much pleasure, then don't bother.
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    (Original post by footballcrazy12)
    surely you're lying
    Nope. Not something I'm proud of, mind, but at the same time I'm not really embarrassed by the fact either. Most were going a bit mental on one night stands at uni etc when I just saw sex as sex and nothing more. Certinaly not something I'd do now
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    (Original post by SamTheMan)
    It's a bit worrying if a girl sleeps with guys just to feel good about herself anyway. Plenty of incredibly plain/ugly girls who offer it on a plate get to sleep with very good-looking guys so only a deluded girl would think she's achieved much by convincing a guy to sleep with her.
    If you're going to do anything like that, do it for the pleasure you get out of it. If you're not getting much pleasure, then don't bother.
    well i want to sleep with hot guys cos they're hot, who doesn't like sex with gorgeous people?
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    =D
    and it keeps going lower. if you're like me it'll make sense
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    (Original post by vapid slut magician)
    well i want to sleep with hot guys cos they're hot, who doesn't like sex with gorgeous people?
    :rolleyes: hot guys cos they're hot?

    Either you're not asking yourself enough questions or you're in denial over your motives.

    Hopefully your motivation isn't having sex with someone who just wants sex, just for the sake of being able to tell yourself that some hot guy was willing to sleep with you (and probably thousands of other girls, some fairly ugly). Compared to actually discovering what good sex feels like with a proper partner...

    Even plain girls can sleep with hot guys if they're willing to lower themselves enough. A technique I've seen work many times: just approach a guy, dance with a guy, put your hand somewhere suggestive and ask him if he's interested in a bit of action. Sure, some might respond with a "you ****" :rolleyes: but if you have no shame...

    The question is is it worth lowering yourself just for the sake of sleeping with some hot guy so you can pretend you're more attractive than you are?
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    and it was the biggest mistake of my life
    there isn't a day that goes by when i don't regret it!

    && sleeping with someone shouldn't be about what they look like
    that's only for things like pornos!!!
    Just coz you're sleeping with a "hot" guy
    doesn't really mean you're all that!

    i know guys that sleep with anyone
    because they know they're attractive
    and then talk about the girls horribly the day after
    ... not a good situation to be in really!
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    (Original post by nessa_ox)
    Female-17-One
    and it was the biggest mistake of my life
    there isn't a day that goes by when i don't regret it!

    && sleeping with someone shouldn't be about what they look like
    that's only for things like pornos!!!
    Just coz you're sleeping with a "hot" guy
    doesn't really mean you're all that!

    i know guys that sleep with anyonebecause they know they're attractive
    and then talk about the girls horribly the day after
    ... not a good situation to be in really
    !
    i know that....
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    Anon because little sis comes on here...

    19 (almost 20) / Female / 4
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    (Original post by SamTheMan)
    :rolleyes: hot guys cos they're hot?

    Either you're not asking yourself enough questions or you're in denial over your motives.

    Hopefully your motivation isn't having sex with someone who just wants sex, just for the sake of being able to tell yourself that some hot guy was willing to sleep with you (and probably thousands of other girls, some fairly ugly). Compared to actually discovering what good sex feels like with a proper partner...

    Even plain girls can sleep with hot guys if they're willing to lower themselves enough. A technique I've seen work many times: just approach a guy, dance with a guy, put your hand somewhere suggestive and ask him if he's interested in a bit of action. Sure, some might respond with a "you ****" :rolleyes: but if you have no shame...

    The question is is it worth lowering yourself just for the sake of sleeping with some hot guy so you can pretend you're more attractive than you are?
    ...or hot girls as well as the plain ones can sleep with hot guys too lol. Strangely there's more to sex than self validation :p:
    Attractions based on personality yes, but looks play a big part. Ever looked at a gorgeous guy/girl and your first thought was 'I want you'. yes?
    A smile and he'll approach you.. where's the 'lowering yourself' in that? no pretence, just a good bit of lust.
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    (Original post by SamTheMan)
    :rolleyes: hot guys cos they're hot?
    I don't see what's wrong with that. It would be equally fine for guys to sleep with "hot girls cos they're hot"; there doesn't have to be any other reason.
    • #92
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    I'm a guy, and I've been with 5 guys and 9 girls. I'm 19.

    If you were to include just fooling around, the count would be far higher.
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    omg i was at a night out and every girl was totally out of there heads with the alcohol they had, anyone couldve done anything to them. makes me feel sorry for there parents. they were being carried by 4 boys to one girl and them 4 boys knew what they wanted!
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    (Original post by SamTheMan)

    The question is is it worth lowering yourself just for the sake of sleeping with some hot guy so you can pretend you're more attractive than you are?
    you misunderstand me. if a hot guy wants to sleep with me cos he's desperate then that's his loss. it's nothing to do with me wanting to sleep with someone to make myself feel more attractive (i know what i look like and my opinion regarding my looks will never change), it's wanting to sleep with someone hot cos it's way more exciting and arousing to sleep with someone who's got a totally perfect body and just oozes sex appeal. i just enjoy sex with hot people more, it's got nothing to do with how i view myself. if someone hot is stupid enough to sleep with someone average and overweight then that's my gain.
 
 
 
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