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How do I ignore my dad yellin at my mom 24/7? we shifting soon to america for my university, my grades aernt the best but its a work in progress, they're average u could say, despite knowing this he made me apply to really outstanding uni even tho my grandes r u could say C and B?!
now hes all like yelling at my mom and blaming everything at her. Ive started despising him sm when he walks into the room honestly i leave, literally hate his presence, now hes telling my mom its her fault that his children r distancing from him when even if we do sit together, hes always on his phone. I have my exams and these issues r bothering me sm, please help
now hes all like yelling at my mom and blaming everything at her. Ive started despising him sm when he walks into the room honestly i leave, literally hate his presence, now hes telling my mom its her fault that his children r distancing from him when even if we do sit together, hes always on his phone. I have my exams and these issues r bothering me sm, please help
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How do I ignore my dad yellin at my mom 24/7? we shifting soon to america for my university, my grades aernt the best but its a work in progress, they're average u could say, despite knowing this he made me apply to really outstanding uni even tho my grandes r u could say C and B?!
now hes all like yelling at my mom and blaming everything at her. Ive started despising him sm when he walks into the room honestly i leave, literally hate his presence, now hes telling my mom its her fault that his children r distancing from him when even if we do sit together, hes always on his phone. I have my exams and these issues r bothering me sm, please help
How do I ignore my dad yellin at my mom 24/7? we shifting soon to america for my university, my grades aernt the best but its a work in progress, they're average u could say, despite knowing this he made me apply to really outstanding uni even tho my grandes r u could say C and B?!
now hes all like yelling at my mom and blaming everything at her. Ive started despising him sm when he walks into the room honestly i leave, literally hate his presence, now hes telling my mom its her fault that his children r distancing from him when even if we do sit together, hes always on his phone. I have my exams and these issues r bothering me sm, please help
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OMGGG we have such similar lives , grade wise, family wise etc. i know u have prolly tried to speak to ur parents but all u can do right now, if u can ik its *****y advice but wait it out, asking ur dad to change , and im not defending him, but its like trying to draw blood from a stone, its useless, hell always be set in his ways, and its prolly mentally draining for u too and ur mum, ive been in that position ,esp now im doing gcses nobody gives me a break or understands how important my gcses are, they think u just get them over and done with, this is bad advice but u will gain independence in uni or sixthform, apply where u wanna go, pave ur way in terms of studying, do everything u can, dont let ur dad be the reason u cant reach ur goals, when u grow up u will realise u choose how much toxicity u want in ur life, im not saying to cut ties, but u will have that independance to choose who u let into ur life, and distance is good sometimes. u will choose who u want in ur life in terms of friends and family, at the end of the day its ur life and ur grades, its better said than done but just wait this period out, its a bad moment but not a bad life, as far as i can see, ur dad might not want to try talking if u have alredy done that, u will realise everyone else becomes disposable, if u want ur mum at the end of the day u will still have her as a parent, but please just wait it out, u will make it through the other end, we all will !! best of lucks on ur exams , u will do amazing!! u have so much potential, dont let anyone be the reason for ur failure, dont let anything, even if its ur own family, get in the way of ur success.
OMGGG we have such similar lives , grade wise, family wise etc. i know u have prolly tried to speak to ur parents but all u can do right now, if u can ik its *****y advice but wait it out, asking ur dad to change , and im not defending him, but its like trying to draw blood from a stone, its useless, hell always be set in his ways, and its prolly mentally draining for u too and ur mum, ive been in that position ,esp now im doing gcses nobody gives me a break or understands how important my gcses are, they think u just get them over and done with, this is bad advice but u will gain independence in uni or sixthform, apply where u wanna go, pave ur way in terms of studying, do everything u can, dont let ur dad be the reason u cant reach ur goals, when u grow up u will realise u choose how much toxicity u want in ur life, im not saying to cut ties, but u will have that independance to choose who u let into ur life, and distance is good sometimes. u will choose who u want in ur life in terms of friends and family, at the end of the day its ur life and ur grades, its better said than done but just wait this period out, its a bad moment but not a bad life, as far as i can see, ur dad might not want to try talking if u have alredy done that, u will realise everyone else becomes disposable, if u want ur mum at the end of the day u will still have her as a parent, but please just wait it out, u will make it through the other end, we all will !! best of lucks on ur exams , u will do amazing!! u have so much potential, dont let anyone be the reason for ur failure, dont let anything, even if its ur own family, get in the way of ur success.
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you could accuse him of sexual assault , seems to be the hip thing
you could accuse him of sexual assault , seems to be the hip thing
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you could accuse him of sexual assault , seems to be the hip thing
you could accuse him of sexual assault , seems to be the hip thing
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you could accuse him of sexual assault , seems to be the hip thing
you could accuse him of sexual assault , seems to be the hip thing
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ahhaha hey, im doing my A levels and i get it, you really think i havent waited it out? u wanna continue this convo in priv?
ahhaha hey, im doing my A levels and i get it, you really think i havent waited it out? u wanna continue this convo in priv?
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and women frequently make up allegations
and women frequently make up allegations
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ok ok, if you live in the middle east, tell people he is a blasphemer . say he said some derogatory about Allah.
ok ok, if you live in the middle east, tell people he is a blasphemer . say he said some derogatory about Allah.
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ahhaha hey, im doing my A levels and i get it, you really think i havent waited it out? u wanna continue this convo in priv?
ahhaha hey, im doing my A levels and i get it, you really think i havent waited it out? u wanna continue this convo in priv?
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