I’m mainly wondering what people’s experiences have been like at these unis. I’m torn over these factors:
1. I like the courses at both universities (for Arabic), so that isn’t a deciding factor for me.
2. I’m unsure about going to SOAS because I live in London and really don’t want to have to stay at home and I’ve heard socialising is hard when you’re living at home AND go to a London uni (and my parents are strict — I’m not allowed to go anywhere alone unless it’s between school and home, which isn’t long, or the shops with a sibling, and I expect this will continue, on top of my siblings being very noisy at home).
3. I also feel reluctant about Manchester because of how far it is from home. I don’t want to be too far in case I’m needed at home and don’t want to have to move my stuff that far away.
4. I’m quite a shy person, so I’m wondering if Manchester is really a good idea because it’s incredibly big and I worry I’ll be overwhelmed by it.
5. What is the general atmosphere like at these universities? What are the staff like and administration? What is the accommodation like at Manchester? If I’m lucky to stumble across anyone doing Arabic at these universities too, I’d like to know what the teaching is really like and how cooperative and good at communication the tutors are.
6. I know universities shouldn’t be chosen for the name, but Manchester is admittedly more well-known and respected than SOAS, although SOAS is specialised in Arabic whereas I’m not quite sure about Manchester (although it seemed good to me during my interview with the main tutor there, and I liked the idea of being paired up with the years above us so we get support).
I am leaning towards insuring Manchester because I think the biggest thing for me might be the chance to live away from home and become more independent (especially as there’ll be a year abroad anyway). Manchester also has the lower of the two offers thanks to contextual stuff: BBB vs ABB for the absolute worst case scenario (firm is AAA).
Edit: Caused some confusion -- it's either Manchester or SOAS for insurance because I'm already firming Oxford. I just want to choose a back-up uni I'll also be happy going to just in case.