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Hey, so long story short ,i live in a middle-eastern country. my girlfriend's family are so strict and religious. and they found someone to marry her. they don't know about our relationship yet. but the boy they found is so powerful and rich.and they are close family friends. and they said to her that this is the best opportunity for you to achieve all your dreams in your life and stuff like that. my girlfriend loves me and doesn't want to do that but she is so afraid to say no to her family. she has no freedom to decide for herself and she said to me that if she go against their decision things will be so bad and tragic. We're in a long distance relationship for over a year now and I do not want to lose her like this. I said whatever I could to her to keep her alive and going.I explained that she should not accept this misery and im with her and stuff like that. she haven't even meet the boy she's forced to marry with yet. but her family said that she should spend some time with him. last thing she said to me was " I hope he doesn't likes me "
I'm really thinking deeply about what to do and how to save her. but its just so ****edup... Im looking for any useful helps here... thanks.
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(Original post by itsbeenlike4)
Hey, so long story short ,i live in a middle-eastern country. my girlfriend's family are so strict and religious. and they found someone to marry her. they don't know about our relationship yet. but the boy they found is so powerful and rich.and they are close family friends. and they said to her that this is the best opportunity for you to achieve all your dreams in your life and stuff like that. my girlfriend loves me and doesn't want to do that but she is so afraid to say no to her family. she has no freedom to decide for herself and she said to me that if she go against their decision things will be so bad and tragic. We're in a long distance relationship for over a year now and I do not want to lose her like this. I said whatever I could to her to keep her alive and going.I explained that she should not accept this misery and im with her and stuff like that. she haven't even meet the boy she's forced to marry with yet. but her family said that she should spend some time with him. last thing she said to me was " I hope he doesn't likes me "
I'm really thinking deeply about what to do and how to save her. but its just so ****edup... Im looking for any useful helps here... thanks.
Try to elope somehow? Seems like a very difficult situation to be honest.
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Try to elope somehow? Seems like a very difficult situation to be honest.
I even said to her that Im ready to do this if you agree. I think she's just so afraid of anything.
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I even said to her that Im ready to do this if you agree. I think she's just so afraid of anything.
Well, that's probably the only option. You've got to persuade her.
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Hey, so long story short ,i live in a middle-eastern country. my girlfriend's family are so strict and religious. and they found someone to marry her. they don't know about our relationship yet. but the boy they found is so powerful and rich.and they are close family friends. and they said to her that this is the best opportunity for you to achieve all your dreams in your life and stuff like that. my girlfriend loves me and doesn't want to do that but she is so afraid to say no to her family. she has no freedom to decide for herself and she said to me that if she go against their decision things will be so bad and tragic. We're in a long distance relationship for over a year now and I do not want to lose her like this. I said whatever I could to her to keep her alive and going.I explained that she should not accept this misery and im with her and stuff like that. she haven't even meet the boy she's forced to marry with yet. but her family said that she should spend some time with him. last thing she said to me was " I hope he doesn't likes me "
I'm really thinking deeply about what to do and how to save her. but its just so ****edup... Im looking for any useful helps here... thanks.
Religion wastes peoples life. It's disgraceful that you can't marry who you want and you have to follow what a religion wants
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just another reason why religion is joooooooooooooookes
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