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Anonymous #1
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so, my longterm boyf and I have been waiting till marriage and i love him and he is the sweetest human ever! However since i moved to uni i have been developing crushes left and right and kind of want to unleash and explore myself. i love him but he doesn't feel the same there a few guys that like flirting with me but I haven't gone further. I need Advice!!!
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Ngl it happens especially if youre young in age. We’re all explorative humans so it’s fine but make sure you put a line to how far things go with them. You don’t wanna lose someone because of temporary people
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yes i know but i love the guys here complementing me telling me im beautiful and wispering naughty things in my ear. I feel like my bf is holding me back but i love him too much
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(Original post by asianannie)
yes i know but i love the guys here complementing me telling me im beautiful and wispering naughty things in my ear. I feel like my bf is holding me back but i love him too much
is this like a sexual attraction thing or is it something deeper, like do you feel like the guys understand you more?
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How long have you been at uni and how long have you been going out W him?
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(Original post by heroine81)
is this like a sexual attraction thing or is it something deeper, like do you feel like the guys understand you more?
i think its just sexual... we are waiting till marriage


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How long have you been at uni and how long have you been going out W him?
been at uni since September and going out with him for 6 years
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yes i know but i love the guys here complementing me telling me im beautiful and wispering naughty things in my ear. I feel like my bf is holding me back but i love him too much
You know nothing about these boys, whether you are compatible, if they are good company, or if they just want sex.

If you want to throw away your relationship because you've had your head turned by a few superficial comments, go ahead. It might be better for your boyfriend, who is the sweetest person ever, as you don't sound very mature to be involved with someone. Then again, he doesn't love you? What exactly is going on here?
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You need to find where your priorities lie, if you’re already flirting with other boys, and losing attraction towards your boyfriend who’s made a commitment to you - then to me it’s just sad. You need to make a choice between your boyfriend or potentially someone else.
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(Original post by Surnia)
Then again, he doesn't love you? What exactly is going on here?
he does love me he has told me that... and i love him. he doesnt feel the same about sex before marriage.

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You need to find where your priorities lie, if you’re already flirting with other boys, and losing attraction towards your boyfriend who’s made a commitment to you - then to me it’s just sad. You need to make a choice between your boyfriend or potentially someone else.
i am still attracted to him! i love him and want a future with him but i love when guys appreciate me. im just so conflicted
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