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so my partner for 1 year was apparently cheating on me with my best friend. I don´t know what to do.
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so my partner for 1 year was apparently cheating on me with my best friend. I don´t know what to do.
so my partner for 1 year was apparently cheating on me with my best friend. I don´t know what to do.
Personally, as hard as it is, I’d say you’d be best cutting them both out of your life. That’s just cruel of them, and if they don’t care enough to show some basic self control, you might be better off finding someone else. It’s not like a one-off genuine drunk accident (although even then I’m not sure I’d stay with someone who was willing to drink enough to do that), it was a pretty long-term relationship from a teen’s perspective and they both messed up big time.
I’m here if you need to talk anything through, and my PMs are always open if you want to say hi (looks like your account’s too new to PM but should work in a couple of days). I’m so sorry you’ve found yourself in this position
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People are monsters
Personally, as hard as it is, I’d say you’d be best cutting them both out of your life. That’s just cruel of them, and if they don’t care enough to show some basic self control, you might be better off finding someone else. It’s not like a one-off genuine drunk accident (although even then I’m not sure I’d stay with someone who was willing to drink enough to do that), it was a pretty long-term relationship from a teen’s perspective and they both messed up big time.
I’m here if you need to talk anything through, and my PMs are always open if you want to say hi (looks like your account’s too new to PM but should work in a couple of days). I’m so sorry you’ve found yourself in this position
People are monsters
Personally, as hard as it is, I’d say you’d be best cutting them both out of your life. That’s just cruel of them, and if they don’t care enough to show some basic self control, you might be better off finding someone else. It’s not like a one-off genuine drunk accident (although even then I’m not sure I’d stay with someone who was willing to drink enough to do that), it was a pretty long-term relationship from a teen’s perspective and they both messed up big time.
I’m here if you need to talk anything through, and my PMs are always open if you want to say hi (looks like your account’s too new to PM but should work in a couple of days). I’m so sorry you’ve found yourself in this position
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Are you coping alright with everything?
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It’s the least I can do, you seem like a really sweet person and what’s happening to you is incredibly painful and unfair. I was only with my ex for 19 days before finding out he cheated and I was still hurt, so I can’t imagine finding out so much further down the line.
Are you coping alright with everything?
It’s the least I can do, you seem like a really sweet person and what’s happening to you is incredibly painful and unfair. I was only with my ex for 19 days before finding out he cheated and I was still hurt, so I can’t imagine finding out so much further down the line.
Are you coping alright with everything?
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im trying currently crying, but im doing ok ig, but the worst thing is my ¨friend¨ is my neghbor
im trying currently crying, but im doing ok ig, but the worst thing is my ¨friend¨ is my neghbor
Do you think you’d be able to mostly avoid her when she’s nearby? I’m fully aware of how hard it is, having an ex at school myself and some old friends I don’t get along with, but it is somewhat possible if you know enough about them. If they hang out in the same place every day, or the same selection of places, try to find somewhere new. I did that and sure it’s lonely, but you do get used to it and I was able to meet some new people in the process. It’ll be easier to adjust if you’re outgoing, as you can talk to people and make friends more easily.
As for your ex, it’s just pretty much the same thing - try to have little to do with him, assuming you’re not willing to give either of them another chance. If you do want to try again, be cautious, but I managed to stay friends with the ex who cheated on me so it is possible if you’re careful.
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That’s understandable. It will take a while before it stops hurting, and if anything it’s probably good that you’re crying and letting yourself feel those emotions. That sounds awkward though, it may well cause some difficulties for a while if you’re forced to see her no matter where you are (I assume you see her both at home and at school) and have that constant reminder hanging over you.
Do you think you’d be able to mostly avoid her when she’s nearby? I’m fully aware of how hard it is, having an ex at school myself and some old friends I don’t get along with, but it is somewhat possible if you know enough about them. If they hang out in the same place every day, or the same selection of places, try to find somewhere new. I did that and sure it’s lonely, but you do get used to it and I was able to meet some new people in the process. It’ll be easier to adjust if you’re outgoing, as you can talk to people and make friends more easily.
As for your ex, it’s just pretty much the same thing - try to have little to do with him, assuming you’re not willing to give either of them another chance. If you do want to try again, be cautious, but I managed to stay friends with the ex who cheated on me so it is possible if you’re careful.
That’s understandable. It will take a while before it stops hurting, and if anything it’s probably good that you’re crying and letting yourself feel those emotions. That sounds awkward though, it may well cause some difficulties for a while if you’re forced to see her no matter where you are (I assume you see her both at home and at school) and have that constant reminder hanging over you.
Do you think you’d be able to mostly avoid her when she’s nearby? I’m fully aware of how hard it is, having an ex at school myself and some old friends I don’t get along with, but it is somewhat possible if you know enough about them. If they hang out in the same place every day, or the same selection of places, try to find somewhere new. I did that and sure it’s lonely, but you do get used to it and I was able to meet some new people in the process. It’ll be easier to adjust if you’re outgoing, as you can talk to people and make friends more easily.
As for your ex, it’s just pretty much the same thing - try to have little to do with him, assuming you’re not willing to give either of them another chance. If you do want to try again, be cautious, but I managed to stay friends with the ex who cheated on me so it is possible if you’re careful.
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(Original post by bella.knight)
yeah i can try its hard when my ex is in my 3rd period and my ex friend is on my bus
yeah i can try its hard when my ex is in my 3rd period and my ex friend is on my bus
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