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does having a baby make you feel better?
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does that distract you from your problems or does it cause more problems for yourself?
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im glad I don't want children to be honest, and i'm not even into guys anyway. I'd rather stay without children and be financially stable first, but I don't even want kids anyway. You should never want kids to feel better, that's not a great reason for doing so.
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Thats pretty… graphic. So what is my coping mechanism, alcohol? love?
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Using a baby as a coping mechanism will be hugely harmful for both you and the baby.
If you're feeling nurturing something may help, try a houseplant
If you're feeling nurturing something may help, try a houseplant
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(Original post by sociologynerd8)
im glad I don't want children to be honest, and i'm not even into guys anyway. I'd rather stay without children and be financially stable first, but I don't even want kids anyway. You should never want kids to feel better, that's not a great reason for doing so.
im glad I don't want children to be honest, and i'm not even into guys anyway. I'd rather stay without children and be financially stable first, but I don't even want kids anyway. You should never want kids to feel better, that's not a great reason for doing so.
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its not like doctors would even remove it because “we all say that and want kids at some point in our lives”.
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A baby is seriously hard work, a lot of responsibility and can be very expensive too.
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A baby is seriously hard work, a lot of responsibility and can be very expensive too.
A baby is seriously hard work, a lot of responsibility and can be very expensive too.
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does that distract you from your problems or does it cause more problems for yourself?
does that distract you from your problems or does it cause more problems for yourself?
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I’d only want babies if they were twins. Otherwise it’s a no, no don’t want kids.
I’d only want babies if they were twins. Otherwise it’s a no, no don’t want kids.
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potentially if you think your goal in life is to have a child; now you've achieved it. who's paying for it?
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potentially if you think your goal in life is to have a child; now you've achieved it. who's paying for it?
potentially if you think your goal in life is to have a child; now you've achieved it. who's paying for it?
Benefits can help a bit. The father of the child?
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so people who have babies at 16/17/18, they ruined their lives?
so people who have babies at 16/17/18, they ruined their lives?
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Not ruined but they definitely haven't made their lives any easier. Unless you have family or a partner to help, it's a lot of sleepless nights. All the while, a lot of other 16-18 year olds who will be doing very teenage things like drinking and hanging with friends etc.
Not ruined but they definitely haven't made their lives any easier. Unless you have family or a partner to help, it's a lot of sleepless nights. All the while, a lot of other 16-18 year olds who will be doing very teenage things like drinking and hanging with friends etc.
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Thats pretty… graphic. So what is my coping mechanism, alcohol? love?
Thats pretty… graphic. So what is my coping mechanism, alcohol? love?
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its not always going to be twins though.
its not always going to be twins though.
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You need to find a way to identify and deal with the root cause of your issues.
You need to find a way to identify and deal with the root cause of your issues.
Maybe a step forward could be counselling.
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that's not a child's responsibility to make everything 'better' for you. this will be a baby that you have to care for. you need to be mentally prepared, physically prepared because this is a full commitment and this baby will drain you! so i think it will distract you from your social life but other than that, they need you 24/7. maybe you should get a puppy
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