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    hiii,
    theres a guy ive met who i really like. we are kinda friends. yet when i saw his facebook page, i saw that he is in a complicated relationship with a named girl.
    what does this exactly mean? and what should i do now?
    i feel slightly gutted

    thnx everyone!
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    how about you message him and ask about it in the most roundabout way possible? we're merely TSRians and we wouldn't know what this guy's relationship status means.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    hiii,
    theres a guy ive met who i really like. we are kinda friends. yet when i saw his facebook page, i saw that he is in a complicated relationship with a named girl.
    what does this exactly mean? and what should i do now?
    i feel slightly gutted

    thnx everyone!
    Just bide your time...dont make a move, just carry on the friendship and try to get to know him a bit better.

    I'm sure as your friendship evolves he will tell you about his relationship.

    I'd also say if he makes a move...don't get involved if he's still in the relationship, because someone will end up getting hurt...probably you.
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    (Original post by strawberry)
    how about you message him and ask about it in the most roundabout way possible? we're merely TSRians and we wouldn't know what this guy's relationship status means.
    Yeah, this "complicated" thing could lead to a perfect conversation opener to discuss his feelings and the current status of this relationship. Most people put complicated when it's kind of on/off, or not quite yet into a relationship, or having a bad patch.
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    (Original post by Jon7)
    Yeah, this "complicated" thing could lead to a perfect conversation opener to discuss his feelings and the current status of this relationship. Most people put complicated when it's kind of on/off, or not quite yet into a relationship, or having a bad patch.
    Exactly

    If it is complicated... you never know what might happen
    So just stay friends, be there for him if it gets rough... and you never know- he might see you as more than just a friend after. :yep:
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    I don't know anyone who puts 'complicated relationship' and is actually serious? I mean why would you, you'd look a bit of a muppet. So probably just a joke... when you having banter with him just say (jokingly) "so hows the complicated relationship going then huh" or something to that effect. sorted
 
 
 
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