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Idk i kinda want to drop her as a friend but im not sure if i should, bc i feel like she doesnt notice what she does is hurtful, even though i feel really upset.
if she gets really defensive and upset with you for the message, then that's an immediate sign to drop her and distance yourself - you don't want to be with someone who doesn't value you and your feelings.
if she is genuinely apologetic, i would try and give her a second chance - maybe she doesn't purposefully mean to hurt you. however, if she continues to ignore you and make you upset once you've talked to her, i would slowly distance myself from her.
you deserve a best friend that cares about you as much as you care about them. good luck <3
She doesn't sounds anything like a friend and it seems that you don't have much friendly feeling for her either.